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Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:30 pm
by Kung-fu Hillbilly
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Mark & Kerry

Life as an Expat wife in South East Asia

7 Sept 2019

In 2013 we made the decision to move to Thailand and teach English.... We were prepared for a culture shock as that is what travelling is about, seeing the way others live and go about their daily lives. What I was not prepared for was the Sexpat elements.

When we were teaching it was nothing to have students, young girls and young boys, offering sexual favours for better grades. More so Mark was the recipient of the offers than me, and as a father of two daughters it was quite unnerving. As a wife it was also uncomfortable to watch young girls fawning over your husband of 20 odd years like he was a demi god.

We often would go out at night with a couple of male expat friends who honestly just wanted to have a peaceful drink without all the teasing and flirting games. Before we would leave to go out, they would always give me their money to hold for the night so if they were asked for money they could legitimately say they had none. This always amused me. Big tough men going out, but mum had to hold the money.

We have met many Expat ladies who arrive in South East Asia with their hubbies to start their dream life of retirement or change of life style. Unfortunately for some their hubbies are number 100 and before they know it he has headed off into the wild blue yonder with a new 20ish love of his life.

As far as trying to date and move on for them in a South East Asia country it is by no means an easy feat. Weeding out the sexpats from the rejected bitter men and the really really strange ones is a job on its own. We have had single Expat ladies go on dates only to be told as soon as they arrive “oh by the way so you don’t get the wrong idea, I only sleep with Ladyboys”.

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Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:38 pm
by Felgerkarb
How can she be astute in some observations, but be so utterly clueless in others....oh ya, never mind.

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 4:12 pm
by SternAAlbifrons
Felgerkarb wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:38 pm How can she be astute in some observations, but be so utterly clueless in others....oh ya, never mind.
lol
we all are, i reckon

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 5:04 pm
by Mishmash
Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:30 pm Image
Mark & Kerry

Life as an Expat wife in South East Asia

7 Sept 2019

In 2013 we made the decision to move to Thailand and teach English.... We were prepared for a culture shock as that is what travelling is about, seeing the way others live and go about their daily lives. What I was not prepared for was the Sexpat elements.

When we were teaching it was nothing to have students, young girls and young boys, offering sexual favours for better grades. More so Mark was the recipient of the offers than me, and as a father of two daughters it was quite unnerving. As a wife it was also uncomfortable to watch young girls fawning over your husband of 20 odd years like he was a demi god.

We often would go out at night with a couple of male expat friends who honestly just wanted to have a peaceful drink without all the teasing and flirting games. Before we would leave to go out, they would always give me their money to hold for the night so if they were asked for money they could legitimately say they had none. This always amused me. Big tough men going out, but mum had to hold the money.

We have met many Expat ladies who arrive in South East Asia with their hubbies to start their dream life of retirement or change of life style. Unfortunately for some their hubbies are number 100 and before they know it he has headed off into the wild blue yonder with a new 20ish love of his life.

As far as trying to date and move on for them in a South East Asia country it is by no means an easy feat. Weeding out the sexpats from the rejected bitter men and the really really strange ones is a job on its own. We have had single Expat ladies go on dates only to be told as soon as they arrive “oh by the way so you don’t get the wrong idea, I only sleep with Ladyboys”.

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Gotta be the most bizarre shite I ever heard - did they get laid or not. FFS. Poor Mish's eyes hurting. please switch channels to @Brody as soon as possible. My beer nearly came out my mouth - sorry sorry.

If you see these people please report our Immigration centers ASAP

@Kung-fu Hillbilly oh dude - you bone raker you. 10/10 for this one :beer3:

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Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 5:32 pm
by Felgerkarb
SternAAlbifrons wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 4:12 pm
Felgerkarb wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 2:38 pm How can she be astute in some observations, but be so utterly clueless in others....oh ya, never mind.
lol
we all are, i reckon
Ya, but...come on.

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 5:38 pm
by SternAAlbifrons
^^
Hmmm... :chin:...

True.

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 6:15 pm
by DaveG
" before they know it he has headed off into the wild blue yonder with a new 20ish love of his life" !!!!!!,

Yeh wouldn't blame him !!!, he does have a bit of a cheeky smirk on his face !!, Just popping out for a pint of milk love, back in an hour. :dragonchase:

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 7:35 pm
by lin.chea-ronh
:dragonchase: I think 98 % this lady has the menopause ! It can make us females unreasonable ,bitchtitts and Frumpy _
My advise " girlie get your body into a bikini!!

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 7:47 pm
by fax
lin.chea-ronh wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 7:35 pm :dragonchase: I think 98 % this lady has the menopause ! It can make us females unreasonable ,bitchtitts and Frumpy _
My advise " girlie get your body into a bikini!!
For a while I thought you were using Google Translate to write the posts, and I’d respect that, but what kind of word is “bitchtitts”? Where did you study to say “menopause” instead of “period”?

Re: Expat wife not prepared for sexpat elements.

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 8:21 pm
by Clutch Cargo
DaveG wrote: Sat Nov 02, 2019 6:15 pm " before they know it he has headed off into the wild blue yonder with a new 20ish love of his life" !!!!!!,

Yeh wouldn't blame him !!!, he does have a bit of a cheeky smirk on his face !!, Just popping out for a pint of milk love, back in an hour. :dragonchase:
Blame it on globalisation? :unknown: