Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

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Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by Cam Nivag » Sat Sep 29, 2018 10:17 pm

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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by Gardiguy » Sat Sep 29, 2018 11:02 pm

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What hotels/guesthouses did they wake up in? What pubs/bars were they drinking in?
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by Anchor Moy » Sun Sep 30, 2018 1:01 am

Were they robbed as well ? The post is a bit vague. "Sometimes"they are sexually assaulted seems to indicate that the attacker's goal is not always sex/rape ?
I have no problem believing that this is possible, but agree with Gardi that it would be useful to know where the alleged victims were drinking. When there were druggings down at the beach in Sihanoukville, there were one or two bars that had this problem repeatedly. At least you knew which places to avoid.
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by TOG » Sun Sep 30, 2018 1:19 am

Not bating for the other side I would not know, but is this normal behavior in gay bars?
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by Anchor Moy » Tue Oct 02, 2018 12:43 pm

TOG wrote:
Sun Sep 30, 2018 1:19 am
Not bating for the other side I would not know, but is this normal behavior in gay bars?
The OP on social media doesn't mention gay - it could be women. O:-)
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by Cam Nivag » Tue Oct 02, 2018 1:08 pm

He says "often young men."
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by TOG » Tue Oct 02, 2018 2:09 pm

Anchor Moy wrote:
Tue Oct 02, 2018 12:43 pm
TOG wrote:
Sun Sep 30, 2018 1:19 am
Not bating for the other side I would not know, but is this normal behavior in gay bars?
The OP on social media doesn't mention gay - it could be women. O:-)
Women raping men? This needs further investigation..........
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by prahocalypse now » Wed Oct 03, 2018 8:36 am

There is this argument now that if you have sex with someone who was drunk, it's rape because they were too intoxicated to give consent. Presumably this means that if a sober woman has sex with a drunk man, she is a rapist, just as a sober man would be for having sex with a drunk woman.

But what if both people were drunk? Do you lock them both up for raping each other?
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Re: Recent reports of druggings at bars and gay rape in Siem Reap

Post by IraHayes » Wed Oct 03, 2018 9:18 am

If men cant have drunken sex how the hell are ugly women ever gonna get laid???
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