“Stealthing”

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“Stealthing”

Post by rozzieoz » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:09 am

Guys here’s a question for you.

What should a woman do in this hypothetical situation?

She meets a guy, they have a great night, he takes her home. On the way home she tells him she has a couple of condoms in her handbag, will that be enough? He says yes and they go to his place.

They take a shower, she places the condoms on the bedside table and points them out to him. He absolutely knows she expects him to wear a condom.

They start the business, he puts a condom on and things are going great.
He flips her over and it’s feeling good from behind.

Then she reaches down for a bit of a stroke and realises there is no condom. He flipped her over and took it off, and has been fucking her with no condom.

What should she do in that situation?
Has she been sexually assaulted?

**EDIT**

The story is not hypothetical, it happened to me about two weeks ago.

I was nervous about the response when I originally posted, but you guys have been mostly amazing.

Thank you.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by JUDGEDREDD » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:41 am

I believe by law that constitutes sexual assault in the United Kingdom.

Might be difficult to prove/vary dependant on country.

p.s she should get tested.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by rozzieoz » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:43 am

“She” will get tested this week.

It’s the second time it’s happened. Some guys suck.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by rozzieoz » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:45 am

As humiliating as it is I’m speaking out about it because someone has to.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by andy1 » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:51 am

If intentionally removed she should stop and yes she has been assulted :sign17: accidental removal does happen though and if that is the case i hope it was found
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by rozzieoz » Thu Feb 28, 2019 2:52 am

It was not accidental.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by GMJS-CEO » Thu Feb 28, 2019 3:45 am

He will just say it’s an accident. Doesn’t mean she shouldn’t report it.

At least she won’t willingly hook up with him again.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by Cinnamoncat » Thu Feb 28, 2019 3:56 am

Not one of the guys, but I'll respond that I hope she kicked him out of her body as soon as she discovered his maneuver. It was wrong.

What a jerk. So much for a celebration.
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by Duncan » Thu Feb 28, 2019 7:49 am

If I was that girl , I would punish him by leading him on right up to the final act and stop. Nothing frustrates and upsets a guy more than a ''cock-teaser '' who wastes his time. Then I would wait a while and contact him and say the blood tests came back '' Positive '' and he should get tested. That would make him sweat for a few
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Re: “Stealthing”

Post by phuketrichard » Thu Feb 28, 2019 8:04 am

dont see how any guy could comment on this other than say its wrong and "she" should have fucking kicked him out.
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