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I'm just wondering the about the pros and cons of sponsoring a Cambodian bar girl and the cost. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to rescue anyone from a bar and I'm sure she would continue to see other customers but just help with a little bit of money on a monthly basis and in return chat with her a bit when I'm back home. It would be great to hear from anyone who has sponsored a girl and any insights people might have. Also importantly, what sort of amount is reasonable to pay for this sort of service??

Why do you want to do this?

Good question! I'm not sure if I will but thinking about it. I met a girl who I like but I am under no illusions that our time together was anything more than a "transaction" even though we did have fun so I guess I just want to help her out a bit and have ongoing communication while I'm away. I guess a kind of "preferred customer status" As I said before I'm not going to try to recue her from the bar

would you be okay with sponsoring her if you knew she was also getting regular payments from others?

I wonder how many other guys are "preferred customers" as well. She's obviously very good at her job if you're willing to pay her for absolutely nothing while you're not in the country.

hahah sounds like a new UNICEF program -" for just $100 per month you can sponsor a bar girl , with your help she can get her nails and hair done and eat a big seafood dinner "

Joking aside , ask yourself what do you gain ?

I´m sure shes a lovely girl and you had some good times but I would advise against it .

What's her name and phone number?

If she's that good I'd like to take a look myself, along with a lot of blokes reading this thread.

She'll thank you far more for bringing her a bunch of new punters.

Pay her for each time you chat with her. I’m sure she sees it that way already.

As to how much, does she know exactly how much you can spend? Because that’s how much she needs from you, and then some.

Life of a bar girl is expensive. Must have Scoopy, or Zoomer X, latest watch and phone. And the daily make up and nail salon sessions all add up. As well as her latest in ‘professional’ work clothes. Family needs medical treatment in Vietnam or Thailand. And the cows need hospital.

There are no pros, just cons. Sorry.

Funflyer wrote: ↑Mon Oct 03, 2022 7:30 am I'm just wondering the about the pros and cons of sponsoring a Cambodian bar girl and the cost. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to rescue anyone from a bar and I'm sure she would continue to see other customers but just help with a little bit of money on a monthly basis and in return chat with her a bit when I'm back home. It would be great to hear from anyone who has sponsored a girl and any insights people might have. Also importantly, what sort of amount is reasonable to pay for this sort of service??

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Re: Introduce Yourself
Post by Funflyer » Sun Feb 03, 2019 2:20 pm

Australian of retirement age. Currently living in Perth but have previously lived in Thailand (8 years) and Cambodia (1 year). I have a Cambodian partner and two kids age 7 and 6 who are all in Australia at the moment. Looking to return to live in Cambodia to live within the next 12 months. I am a qualified teacher and have previously taught at ACE. I will probably look for some part time work when we return. I'm looking forward to being a member of this forum.

What happened to your previous Cambodian partner and 2 kids ?

Separated, actually divorced now