Love or SeX

This is where our community discusses almost anything! While we're mainly a Cambodia expat discussion forum and talk about expat life here, we debate about almost everything. Even if you're a tourist passing through Southeast Asia and want to connect with expatriates living and working in Cambodia, this is the first section of our site that you should check out. Our members start their own discussions or post links to other blogs and/or news articles they find interesting and want to chat about. So join in the fun and start new topics, or feel free to comment on anything our community members have already started! We also have some Khmer members here as well, but English is the main language used on CEO. You're welcome to have a look around, and if you decide you want to participate, you can become a part our international expat community by signing up for a free account.
User avatar
Jamie_Lambo
The Cool Boxing Guy
Posts: 15039
Joined: Mon Apr 20, 2015 10:34 am
Reputation: 3132
Location: ลพบุรี
Great Britain

Re: Love or SeX

Post by Jamie_Lambo »

Gixxer wrote:Idk, I wouldn't bang a chick here. Why stick my dick in cum dumpsters? If I wanted that I'd go back to my ex, but I see that marrying them here is a trend. I don't follow trends.
theres more girls than just the ones that work in bars, maybe youre looking in the wrong places
:tophat: Mean Dtuk Mean Trei, Mean Loy Mean Srey
Punchy McShortstacks School of Hard Knocks :x
User avatar
Jamie_Lambo
The Cool Boxing Guy
Posts: 15039
Joined: Mon Apr 20, 2015 10:34 am
Reputation: 3132
Location: ลพบุรี
Great Britain

Re: Love or SeX

Post by Jamie_Lambo »

juansweetpotato wrote:Re: Love or SeX

Sexy love? or Lovely sex?
now that is the million dollar question!! :please: :thumb:
:tophat: Mean Dtuk Mean Trei, Mean Loy Mean Srey
Punchy McShortstacks School of Hard Knocks :x
prahkeitouj
Expatriate
Posts: 2653
Joined: Tue Feb 03, 2015 11:46 pm
Reputation: 12
Cambodia

Re: RE: Re: RE: Re: RE: Re: Love or SeX

Post by prahkeitouj »

juansweetpotato wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:
Rutiger wrote:
Duncan wrote: No lady,, No problems.
Bob Marley said it best.

No woman....No cry.
No woman .... no cry? Are you sure? hehheh..... You will cry if no woman.
You have got to be joking! Especially nowadays. A good women is as rare as a good man in any city nowadays.
Really? My friend said nowadays women get married in the old age just because they're difficult to find a good man. Hahaha....
កុំស្លាប់ដូចពស់ កុំរស់ដូចកង្កែប
prahkeitouj
Expatriate
Posts: 2653
Joined: Tue Feb 03, 2015 11:46 pm
Reputation: 12
Cambodia

Re: RE: Re: Love or SeX

Post by prahkeitouj »

Gixxer wrote:Idk, I wouldn't bang a chick here. Why stick my dick in cum dumpsters? If I wanted that I'd go back to my ex, but I see that marrying them here is a trend. I don't follow trends.
The worst choice that go back to your ex.
កុំស្លាប់ដូចពស់ កុំរស់ដូចកង្កែប
prahkeitouj
Expatriate
Posts: 2653
Joined: Tue Feb 03, 2015 11:46 pm
Reputation: 12
Cambodia

Re: RE: Re: Love or SeX

Post by prahkeitouj »

asp wrote:Lil salary-much food for thought in what you wrote. But I'm too tired now, I'll get back tomorrow.
Image
កុំស្លាប់ដូចពស់ កុំរស់ដូចកង្កែប
User avatar
Kuroneko
Expatriate
Posts: 3809
Joined: Thu May 15, 2014 11:18 am
Reputation: 879

Re: Love or SeX

Post by Kuroneko »

Gixxer wrote:Idk, I wouldn't bang a chick here. Why stick my dick in cum dumpsters? If I wanted that I'd go back to my ex, but I see that marrying them here is a trend. I don't follow trends.
Image
User avatar
juansweetpotato
Expatriate
Posts: 2637
Joined: Sun Jul 27, 2014 8:45 pm
Reputation: 75

Re: RE: Re: RE: Re: RE: Re: Love or SeX

Post by juansweetpotato »

prahkeitouj wrote:
juansweetpotato wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:
Rutiger wrote:
Duncan wrote: No lady,, No problems.
Bob Marley said it best.

No woman....No cry.
No woman .... no cry? Are you sure? hehheh..... You will cry if no woman.
You have got to be joking! Especially nowadays. A good women is as rare as a good man in any city nowadays.
Really? My friend said nowadays women get married in the old age just because they're difficult to find a good man. Hahaha....

Battle of the sexy's.
"Can you spare some cutter for an old man?"
asp
Expatriate
Posts: 183
Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2015 6:10 am
Reputation: 2

Re: Love or SeX

Post by asp »

For Lil Salary who wrote, *I believe that love can't force. Never force us to love someone and never force someone to love us. Love is scary, it makes us feel too weak."

I don't know where the idea of "forceful love" comes from, but I agree. To fall in love is to have a companion,lover,helpmate or whatever combination of psychological needs we deem necessary to be fulfilled and to be successful it must be reciprocal. It is mutual giving and receiving that approaches the miraculous if successful. In short the idea that love can force us into a relationship is absurd. Falling in love isn't about taking prisoners.I would reject anyone who would allow themselves to submit to unreasonable demands or any other psychological tyranny on my part just as I would flee those who would want
to act likewise with me.

Now as for love being scary there's doubtlessly some insecurity. After all you have trusted one person with your feelings. Experience is the best teacher and that's one reason I'm opposed to arranged marriages.

So no, love with a well chosen partner doesn't weaken us, it strengthens us in the knowledge that when we are wrong we have chosen a person both strong enough to tell ue and stronger yet to not leave us. Falling in love is a bit scary Lil Salary, but it's the best adventure you can have. But you've got to have some adventure in your own soul to begin with.
Chariya
Expatriate
Posts: 61
Joined: Mon Mar 28, 2016 12:12 am
Reputation: 0

Re: Love or SeX

Post by Chariya »

Sometime the parent arrange them to marry even if they not love, maybe you not know
User avatar
Jamie_Lambo
The Cool Boxing Guy
Posts: 15039
Joined: Mon Apr 20, 2015 10:34 am
Reputation: 3132
Location: ลพบุรี
Great Britain

Re: Love or SeX

Post by Jamie_Lambo »

Chariya wrote:Sometime the parent arrange them to marry even if they not love, maybe you not know

How common are arranged marriages in Cambodia these days? i know Samouth i think did a thread about it last year, and there was this article the other month...

http://www.phnompenhpost.com/national/g ... er-charges
adding that he didn’t love her but was being forced by his parents to marry her.
forced marriages must be a pretty tough life sentence if you dont fancy the girl they are shacking you up with :dragonchase:
:tophat: Mean Dtuk Mean Trei, Mean Loy Mean Srey
Punchy McShortstacks School of Hard Knocks :x
Post Reply Previous topicNext topic
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: Ahrefs [Bot], barang_TK, Bing [Bot], Bluenose, Clutch Cargo, Freightdog, Fridaywithmateo, John Bingham, kgbagent, morethantemples, Province, ressl, yongchi and 441 guests