Rutiger wrote:

Jamie_Lambo wrote:

horses wrote:Visited Dolphin bar recently met a ladyboy who wants to continue contact by way of Skype now that I am home. Wants me to support them financially, but not overly asking for money. Question, is it a game ?

support them in what way? so they dont have to work anymore? even if you sent enough money so they didnt have to work, they would still go out and work and party with the money you send, its all a game

Not if his ladyboy is the "cashier". We all know by now that bar cashiers are morally superior and pure of heart and make great wives.

haha of coarse, but shes a freelancer off the beach, maybe i can get her a cashier job at dolphin

Thanks, felt it was a game, your right just short relationship is the best way

horses wrote:Thanks, felt it was a game, your right just short relationship is the best way

i know girls that have bfs that send them money and they still go out down the beach working because its "not enough" and they "need more" plus they like to party

I have met those ones, read their SMS's for them to confirm the $1000 they asked for went into their account

horses wrote:I have met those ones, read their SMS's for them to confirm the $1000 they asked for went into their account

was that in the morning after they had spent the night with you haha

Jamie_Lambo wrote:

horses wrote:I have met those ones, read their SMS's for them to confirm the $1000 they asked for went into their account

LOL....I knew of a Vietnamese girl that did that. She had me reading to her what they were saying. At the time i thought those guys were mugs because they must have thought they were special for her, but they might have known that and been doing what i call 'real life charity work'.

To the o.p and supporting that ladyboy...You gotta follow your heart on this. But, most importantly be in the know that you may not be the only one involved. Your ideas of love are probably misguided. Money probably isn't an issue for you, but it is for poor Asians. That is the get real part.

If you give, then give with a warm heart and kind intentions. Know that it may be a game to the ladyboy, but that isn't your fault. You choose to give because it makes you feel good helping others.

If you can't handle3 the possibility of being 'played', then think again.

If you are getting sexual favors, then it's fair to pay for it in reasonable manners, just like you would in any 1st world country/relationship.

Close relationships cost money, don't they, when you're close to someone you like, it's only natural to invite them out...In this sense, Nothings 'free', but also there are no set rules on how you should respond to favors....

Are we talking about "Dolphin Shack" in Sihanoukville?

horses wrote:Visited Dolphin bar recently met a ladyboy who wants to continue contact by way of Skype now that I am home. Wants me to support them financially, but not overly asking for money. Question, is it a game ?

support them financially? Do you mean him, her or actually them?

KickingWithRedLabel wrote:

horses wrote:Visited Dolphin bar recently met a ladyboy who wants to continue contact by way of Skype now that I am home. Wants me to support them financially, but not overly asking for money. Question, is it a game ?

support them financially? Do you mean him, her or actually them?

Less trouble than supporting them emotionally.