ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:41 pmMy home is my castle and there is no drama allowed in here.
I keep it tidy and professional.

Judging from observations, my life is very simple compared to many of my fellow expats who have chosen to pay for "loving" relationships.

I don't get a lot of sex though that's true, but I'm way past the age of being bothered.

Each to their own, I agree, but it's not just about the "smorgasbord".

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 6:15 pm My house and staff runs around $1k a month.
I'm overspending though, could live with much less, but it's like I acquire expenses the way some people acquire belongings.

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 7:47 pm

Alex wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 7:28 pm

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:31 pm

Ot Mean Loi wrote: ↑Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:52 pm But on reflection, I think the correct Line Item should be . . . Domestic Services. A very flexible terminology.

OML

I don't think getting a hooker by the month is a great option though, those girls are pretty territorial so it limits what you can do in your own house.

Better have professional staff and bring about any girls of your choosing at the time of your choosing.

Yeah I think that kind of arrangement was a lot more popular in OML's generation than it is today.

Let's assume for one second that I would be interested in having a paid companion. Then, for me, the biggest benefit would be that I can get rid of her at any moment and without any drama, just by taking out my wallet and paying the fee due.

Why anyone would be dumb enough to have her stick around for days or weeks (with all the uncalled-for drama that comes with it) is beyond me.

I've never despised hookers. I've never despised whore-mongers. But I have zero respect for muppets who make a hooker their girlfriend or wife.

I wouldn't go that far, understandably there are people who for various reasons see that as a viable option for finding a companion. I don't recommend it, but see no reason to disrespect someone just cause they're not compatible with "regular women". Who knows what their story is.

But I do find it funny that many of these guys come here complaining about western women, then they pay some worn out bar girl to be their girlfriends, and proceed to spend all their time complaining about how troublesome their new girlfriends are.

It's like what they're really looking for is something normal, having a girlfriend, having domestic issues, making up again, whatever. That's the point, and since your girlfriend in this case barely understands you, telling strangers at the bar becomes the point

No offense to anyone, it's just an observation of human nature.