Finally there is someone who speak out against it

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Re: Finally there is someone who speak out against it

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Anchor Moy wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:I've read it on Facebook. How to recognize virgin girls or men? Can we buy virginity? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it?
There is no 100% sure way to tell if anyone is a virgin, even girls. So considering the fact that there is big pressure on Cambodian girls to be virgin when they marry, I would advise any girls to say they are virgins whether this is true or not.
The other possibility is to find a husband who is open-minded enough to accept that his wife is not a virgin. I don't know if there are many Cambodian men who would be ok with this ? IMO they would prefer to think that their wife is a virgin even if she is not. He has his reputation and face to save.
And a girl can always marry a foreigner if she is desperate. :stir:
I think this statement is kinda true :) as i have seen, there are so many desperate women especially those who once or twice married with local, but divorce due to domestic violence and other things were saved by foreigners.
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Re: Finally there is someone who speak out against it

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Jamie_Lambo wrote:
Anchor Moy wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:I've read it on Facebook. How to recognize virgin girls or men? Can we buy virginity? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it?
There is no 100% sure way to tell if anyone is a virgin, even girls. So considering the fact that there is big pressure on Cambodian girls to be virgin when they marry, I would advise any girls to say they are virgins whether this is true or not.
The other possibility is to find a husband who is open-minded enough to accept that his wife is not a virgin. I don't know if there are many Cambodian men who would be ok with this ? IMO they would prefer to think that their wife is a virgin even if she is not. He has his reputation and face to save.
And a girl can always marry a foreigner if she is desperate. :stir:
you can go to the doctor and get a certificate after examination for an intact Hymen lol
AHHHH and there are operations to reconstruct the Hyman and girls are taught how to carry a small amount of blood with them and leave it on the sheets.

NOW do u know about David Fletcher? he was charged / Convicted for Rape YET the drs examined Danny ( the girl he supposedly raped) an her Hyman was still intact!!!

Many girls that horseback ride, are gymnasts, sporty etc etc have broken Hyman's

so now a girl has to be desperate to marry a Barang :facepalm:

.... so many desperate women .......other things were saved by foreigners.
Saved by a Barang MY GOD!!!!! how about you start a ngo to 'Save" all these desperate women whom a Khmer wont marry?
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Re: Finally there is someone who speak out against it

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I always enjoy such incredible ignorance.

http://www.islamicgarden.com/mythhymen.html

You might want to read the material at the link above and understand why having an intact hymen IS NOT proof of virginity. Nor is a broken hymen proof of having had sex. FFS.
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phuketrichard wrote:
Jamie_Lambo wrote:
Anchor Moy wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:I've read it on Facebook. How to recognize virgin girls or men? Can we buy virginity? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it?
There is no 100% sure way to tell if anyone is a virgin, even girls. So considering the fact that there is big pressure on Cambodian girls to be virgin when they marry, I would advise any girls to say they are virgins whether this is true or not.
The other possibility is to find a husband who is open-minded enough to accept that his wife is not a virgin. I don't know if there are many Cambodian men who would be ok with this ? IMO they would prefer to think that their wife is a virgin even if she is not. He has his reputation and face to save.
And a girl can always marry a foreigner if she is desperate. :stir:
you can go to the doctor and get a certificate after examination for an intact Hymen lol
AHHHH and there are operations to reconstruct the Hyman and girls are taught how to carry a small amount of blood with them and leave it on the sheets.

NOW do u know about David Fletcher? he was charged / Convicted for Rape YET the drs examined Danny ( the girl he supposedly raped) an her Hyman was still intact!!!

Many girls that horseback ride, are gymnasts, sporty etc etc have broken Hyman's

so now a girl has to be desperate to marry a Barang :facepalm:

.... so many desperate women .......other things were saved by foreigners.
Saved by a Barang MY GOD!!!!! how about you start a ngo to 'Save" all these desperate women whom a Khmer wont marry?
Genius Question: Ain't you the one who always bragged that you saved a young Cambodian girl who is recently your girlfriend or wife or maybe just your side chick. You said, she had a hard life, got married with a local when she was really young and had a really bad life. She now has better life in Thailand as you saved her.

It is not my duty to set up an NGO to help those desperate girl, we have ministry of women affair, this is absolutely the job of those who work there.
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I did not "save" her, bragged, Young?
Samouth, ur english is good but needs work on comprehension.

YOUR duty?? whoever said duty? and why are they desperate cause they are not married?
do u think all women NEED to be married to have a happy life?
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Only ever had one in my life, not really 100% pleasant.
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vladimir wrote:Only ever had one in my life, not really 100% pleasant.
had one as well, it was not pleasant and would not wish to ever repeat it
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phuketrichard wrote:I did not "save" her, bragged, Young?
Samouth, ur english is good but needs work on comprehension.

YOUR duty?? whoever said duty? and why are they desperate cause they are not married?
do u think all women NEED to be married to have a happy life?
Lol it is okay Richard. I knew that you would not accept it. I think you are right that I need to work on the comprehension and also the ability to understand sarcastic and irony.
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phuketrichard wrote:I did not "save" her, bragged, Young?
Samouth, ur english is good but needs work on comprehension.

YOUR duty?? whoever said duty? and why are they desperate cause they are not married?
do u think all women NEED to be married to have a happy life?
Lol it is okay Richard. I knew that you would not accept it. I think you are right that I need to work on the comprehension and also the ability to understand sarcastic and irony.
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Anchor Moy wrote:
prahkeitouj wrote:I've read it on Facebook. How to recognize virgin girls or men? Can we buy virginity? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it?
There is no 100% sure way to tell if anyone is a virgin, even girls. So considering the fact that there is big pressure on Cambodian girls to be virgin when they marry, I would advise any girls to say they are virgins whether this is true or not.
The other possibility is to find a husband who is open-minded enough to accept that his wife is not a virgin. I don't know if there are many Cambodian men who would be ok with this ? IMO they would prefer to think that their wife is a virgin even if she is not. He has his reputation and face to save.
And a girl can always marry a foreigner if she is desperate. :stir:
I don't think the pressure is from our culture, but it is because there are many selfish cambodian men and they don't really understand women's value. Some of my male friends they don't mind about their wivies' past.

Yes, when all Cambodians women marry foreigners, then they will realize that foreigners are opend-minded than them. :lol:
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