Seeking advice

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I made a foolish mistake a few months ago and trusted a shrewd provincial bar girl. Of course, she turned me over. I lost everything - my bicycle, my laptop, my motorbike, my phone, my room, my cash, my security. Serves me right, I know! I don't seek sympathy. I ended up sleeping on the street and in temples, eating when I could and smoking a cigarette when I was offered one. No drama. I'm a big boy and sucked up the discomfort. I was treated like a feral dog by most people until I rented a room 5km West of the airport a fortnight ago and met a diamond geezer called Bunnat. A smart 44 year old country boy from a poor family who rode a cyclo for years, then bought a motorbike, then a tuk tuk, now a minivan. The man fed me, clothed me and lent me money. Now, we are best friends (understandably).
I want to repay him. He operates a taxi service but he has few customers. His van is spotless and he has a reasonable command of the English language. I want to advise him how to promote himself but I don't know how. Google? Facebook? Tripadvisor? Where? Any advice would be gratefully received.
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Hahah. Yeah, sorry. But haha
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RedBull wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2024 10:51 am Hahah. Yeah, sorry. But haha
Fair enough but I'm looking for advice to help a good friend. Is there any advice you can contribute from your Mom's basement?

'Never look behind. They might be gaining.'
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May I ask how long you have been in Cambodia?
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love to hear how a grown man ( i assume ur not new to se asia) got took for everything >
even complete love would not let me be dragged that far down
have you no friends at all?

Theres tons of van drivers/tuk tuk's advertising/listing on Cambodian fb groups/TA, forget google, many have their customers post < " somthep was great, he took us everywhere, speaks great english and blah bah blah..."
do the same on the fb group where he is living ( PP, SR, Kampot....)
post on TA about ur positive expericne, https://www.tripadvisor.co.nz/ShowForum ... bodia.html

example:
https://www.tripadvisor.co.nz/ShowTopic ... vince.html

Make friends with some Travel agents in town, ( offer HIGH commissions)

its tough and there is a definite over supply
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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DavidMurphy wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2024 10:47 am I made a foolish mistake a few months ago and trusted a shrewd provincial bar girl. Of course, she turned me over. I lost everything ...
I doubt you're going to get away with such a broad stroke, David.

I've just made a nice cup of tea..
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Please do tell more about this romantic endeavour and I will happily share some promotion tips.
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Could try instagram, post videos of his van, videos driving around.

Make an fb page.

Basically try every single avenue.

Good luck with helping him out.
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Every time I hear a horror story about a "bargirl", I ask which bar.

The answer is always - actually not a bar - on Riverside, on st 136, in Pontoon, Sorya Mall (RIP) etc.
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YaTingPom wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2024 11:00 am May I ask how long you have been in Cambodia?
I'll bite. Over 12 years. I wake at 4:30, exercise, coffee and rice soup. Back to the room for a herbal cigarette. The sky Sheila woke at 3:00, took my $800 phone and $400 cash and presumably got on a bus to Prey Veng to celebrate with her family. Any more questions, sparky?
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