Have you ever refused to pay for a lady drink you ordered?

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Maybe you can exchange it for a grope of her arse instead?
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wackyjacky wrote:You have to pay for the drink. You ordered it and they poured it. Do you expect them to pour it back into the bottle ? Feel free to drink it yourself or re-gift it though.
If he drinks it himself can he claim the commission?
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the whole point of buying a lady drink in a bar ( which she 100% understands) is that the lady, by accepting said drink, agrees to sit with you, at least till the drink is finished. After all she is making money off of said drink.

if she does not fulfill her part of the arrangement, why should you pay?

If u bar fined her and agreed on sex and price an she refused once u got her back to your room, would u still pay her what u agreed on?
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phuketrichard wrote: If u bar fined her and agreed on sex and price an she refused once u got her back to your room, would u still pay her what u agreed on?
You mean you don't have to pay?

I've been doing this wrong for years.
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The girl doesn't have to sit w/you if she already has another customer. She has to sit with him. The good earner's will try to work you both. Girls have left me a lot when they saw a regular customer and girls have bailed on other guys when I was the regular customer. Whores acting like whores - big surprise huh ? Lets face it Richard, you're never getting a refund. It's a sleazy bar full of prostitutes, not Nordstroms. ps: I have recouped bar fines a few times when the girl starfished on me. Let me rephrase that - I was able to get another girl with no bf. It's easier to pull an antelope from a lion's mouth than get a cash refund in SEA !
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Pay for the drinks and chalk it up to education. At least with this type of education you can use it in the future unlike some of the high school math courses I took.
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kiwiincambodia wrote:
phuketrichard wrote: If u bar fined her and agreed on sex and price an she refused once u got her back to your room, would u still pay her what u agreed on?
You mean you don't have to pay?

I've been doing this wrong for years.
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if you spend money in a joint, you become a valued customer. They care about your business and reciprocate to an extent. I like to flirt & buy a couple drinks for the owner or mamasan when I'm in a new establishment to show that I'm not a cheap chump. There are times to be thrifty and bargain hunt in your life, but this isn't one of them, Honestly, it's usually counterproductive. if you want to be cheap, give the girls a couple bucks rather than LDs. It's cheaper for you and better for them.
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There's never usually another guy in the bar stupid enough to attract the one I'm sat with, plus the fuglies always neck their swill.
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wackyjacky wrote:if you spend money in a joint, you become a valued customer. They care about your business and reciprocate to an extent. I like to flirt & buy a couple drinks for the owner or mamasan when I'm in a new establishment to show that I'm not a cheap chump. There are times to be thrifty and bargain hunt in your life, but this isn't one of them, Honestly, it's usually counterproductive. if you want to be cheap, give the girls a couple bucks rather than LDs. It's cheaper for you and better for them.
I really quit going to hostess bars in PP and go go bars in Thailand years ago. But even then i never cared what they thought of me, your living in a dream if you think they spend 1 sec thinking of you when ur gone.

Brought more than my fair share of lady drinks

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