I have not seen her for three years.

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Re: I have not seen her for three years.

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daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:00 pm
violet wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:53 pm
daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:45 pm
She has refused to label your relationship means she's trying to establish control. You need to get back in control of the narrative. If you want her then you have to put that forward strongly and make it clear.

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Heavens, we can’t have the little lady in control of the narrative.
All right, all right. The peanut gallery has spoken.

Your significant other, in the absence of any proper upbringing in how to conduct relationships since her mother and father were in an arranged marriage since the age of 17, has made a dysfunctional attempt to elicit your intentions for your relationship.

So you should state clearly what you want and come on strong with your intentions.
You have made an assumption that the white male here (I am assuming he is white) has had modelling of a functional relationship, and, indeed, is able to make grown decisions about what the narrative should be - yeah right
Despite what angsta states, it’s clear from reading through his posts that angsta supports the free FreePalestine movement.
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<sigh> oh fk can we lay off the sjw crap? everybody knows what everybody's thinking. we don't need a block letter presentation of the ERA or mars vs. venus. lighten up.
---->'BANISH HIM!'
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David Gordon wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 12:32 am Alas we have so few days together we both may want to just play in a fantasy again because - life is short.
life IS short
work is for people who cant find truffles
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violet wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:07 pm
daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:00 pm
violet wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:53 pm
daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 9:45 pm
She has refused to label your relationship means she's trying to establish control. You need to get back in control of the narrative. If you want her then you have to put that forward strongly and make it clear.

…
Heavens, we can’t have the little lady in control of the narrative.
All right, all right. The peanut gallery has spoken.

Your significant other, in the absence of any proper upbringing in how to conduct relationships since her mother and father were in an arranged marriage since the age of 17, has made a dysfunctional attempt to elicit your intentions for your relationship.

So you should state clearly what you want and come on strong with your intentions.
You have made an assumption that the white male here (I am assuming he is white) has had modelling of a functional relationship, and, indeed, is able to make grown decisions about what the narrative should be - yeah right
The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.
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Bert Spaggiari wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:13 pm <sigh> oh fk can we lay off the sjw crap? everybody knows what everybody's thinking. we don't need a block letter presentation of the ERA or mars vs. venus. lighten up.
I’m a female. Most, if not all, of the rest of you on this thread are males. When a male talks about not allowing the female subject to have control of her narrative, I’ll pipe up. And I won’t shut up because another male wants to control the narrative.
Despite what angsta states, it’s clear from reading through his posts that angsta supports the free FreePalestine movement.
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daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:33 pm
The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.
With me, people on the whole, my preference is cats, but otherwise, I’m with you. So to speak.
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Freightdog wrote:
daeum_tnaot wrote: ↑Mon Feb 06, 2023 10:33 pm
The better I get to know men, the more I find myself loving dogs.
With me, people on the whole, my preference is cats, but otherwise, I’m with you. So to speak.
Queue gratuitous kitty porn.

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What’s this about controlling the narrative?

This is either your better half, or not.

She needs to know through action.

Get her a Khmer passport and go on vacation together. Any ASEAN country - Singapore, Thailand, etc., accepts Khmer passports.

She only is unsure of her status because of you.

If she’s the one, she will lift you from the gutter every day, polish you off, and make you shine.

Good luck and wish you the best.
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Relationship advice from nkotb and violet 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Roysmit wrote: ↑Tue Feb 07, 2023 8:47 am Relationship advice from nkotb and violet 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This thread is comedy gold in so many ways...
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Re: I have not seen her for three years.

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Am I the only here who knows David+daughter+ex ??
And i understand perfect what happens behind the scenes.
My ex divorced from her ex 15 years ago, and her lawyer said: try 'reverse-psychology": ahaaa, you want my child, okay, do it, keep it, and knever call me a again. And sign a paper that i can prove later to our daughter you wanted it that way !! Its hard at that moment, but it opened the eyes from "him" !!
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