Never got to polyamory part.

On the last visit to Phnom Penh, I was going to introduce myself and missus to her. And then there was the cigarette dangling from her mouth. Her clothes smelled strongly of smoke.

Missus pulled me back and we kept silent and watched the whirlwind that is Rozzieoz at work.

Glad she’s stopped smoking.

newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 4:50 pm Never got to polyamory part.

On the last visit to Phnom Penh, I was going to introduce myself and missus to her. And then there was the cigarette dangling from her mouth. Her clothes smelled strongly of smoke.

Missus pulled me back and we kept silent and watched the whirlwind that is Rozzieoz at work.

Glad she’s stopped smoking.

How close did you actually get to Roz? seems a bit creepy...

I think that the whole idea of polyamory is only for those who are NOT really committed to being with one person ie. Married. It is just too fraught with the danger of one, both or all parties being hurt in the end. And trust me I've mistakenly tried it all, in more than one relationship before and after I met and married my wife. Somehow we're still married after 35 years albeit with many battle scars for both of us.

Finally after all these years we're content to just be with each other, or just too exhausted for any more experiments in "free and open" shit.

It may be okay for the rare few who are uniquely and bizarrely capable of being totally committed to their partner, but able to let each other "wander". But I think from experience, Nada, doesn't work.

Unfortunately my wife and I both came from from unstable backgrounds that contributed to the need to always be looking for something to really make us happy, when all the while that something was the person you loved right beside you.

IraHayes wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 10:17 pm

Almost but it’s probably men causing the drama


(keeping with the stereotype theme)

newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Dec 20, 2022 4:50 pm Never got to polyamory part.

On the last visit to Phnom Penh, I was going to introduce myself and missus to her. And then there was the cigarette dangling from her mouth. Her clothes smelled strongly of smoke.

Missus pulled me back and we kept silent and watched the whirlwind that is Rozzieoz at work.

Glad she’s stopped smoking.

Just sitting back watching Roz but not talking to her, don’t mind me

If we can get Jenny to move into the same building things might become really entertaining.

I will buy the popcorn!

Polyamory - an excuse to have an open relationship and to fuck any willing person(s) that you are attracted to.

Real polyamory seems to be for the few who want to commit to more than one lover and keep a tight unit. (It is the cousin of polygamy) Few probably qualify and for those that don’t - they are just swingers or sluts and as long as they are not being deceitful with each other that’s their choice but let’s not whitewash it with fancy words.

I hope not to offend - this is just my opinion - of course.

Isnt polyamory just a euphemism for being a slapper going out with a beta male twat?