I've re-read the OP post a couple of times and it's not clear to me what the circumstances were that these nude photos were taken/shared/sent. Did she take them herself and send it to him? Did they take them together? Did he take them without her consent eg while she was asleep? etc

So whether she was virtuous or not seems a moot point as I see it. And in the case that she allowed sharing/sent them coz she was in love with him then I think she must be quite naive as to trust someone as a 'forever' partner...especially these days with so many instances of revenge porn.. Then again, it still happens a lot whether in Cambodia or expat home countries. I know someone that was affected by this in Australia and she had recourse in the law courts.. but in Cambodia...well...

Having said all that, and he may well be a bully to boot, BUT that doesn't justify the stabbing actions that she took.

Pseudonomdeplume wrote: ↑Sat Jul 30, 2022 5:24 pm

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Fri Jul 29, 2022 9:48 am The man is never in the wrong.
Sorry, I forgot.

Out of curiosity, when has this ever been a thing in recent times, either in Cambodia or in Western culture?

I've never been taught any narrative contrary to the woman always being right

However I will say that of all people, I get what it's like to have a bad experience with an ex (I'm actually currently being stalked), but I'm not about to try and only side with men because of it.

I'm still open to believing there are sweet women out there, and some of them are completely psychopathic narcissistic bitches and cunts (same goes for men).

I know it sucks, I know it's hard, and there are ways men and women can feel helpless in a situation. For me it is completely the opposite in that, because my ex is the prized daughter of the family, no one believed my side of the story that "daddy's little angel" could do any wrong, so as I proceeded to watch my entire world fall apart and be destroyed in front of my eyes and she proceeded to lie her ass off about everything and leave me with nothing, it definitely caused some resentment inside.

But it's part of learning that lesson we need to learn about what we lack ourselves and how to grow from it. I let her in my life, I trusted her, I didn't listen to my gut feeling and I paid for it. So best to patch up the hole in the heart and move on.

If you keep it all haboured inside, all you're going to want to do is lash out and hurt other people who aren't even involved, or rush to the defense of someone who doesn't deserve it.
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By not letting go you are also punishing yourself for something you didn't do, and building acid in your stomach. But it sounds like that's easier said than done if you're being stalked.

Why are you being stalked if she knows you've got nothing left?

Obviously, I don't know the whole story (I don't know any of it except the end), but I don't believe her family believes her lies; I would actually say they helped conjure the lies as a premeditated plan to transfer your assets and funds over to them.

She may well still like you, supposing she ever did, but family first. That would explain the stalking. Another explanation for the stalking could be that they are making sure there's not more on offer.

So if you're sticking around, act poor.
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I don’t supposed you chaps who keep chopping up your quotes could refrain, and leave the [ quote=] in place, just to make it a little easier on us poor gin sozzled by mid afternoon mere mortals to follow the debate…?