Mister1107 wrote: ↑Thu Mar 17, 2022 7:11 pm I’m new to Kampot

I was looking for a somewhere to eat and stopped at restaurant on the corner. ( beside “ up to u” bar)

While waiting for my food I couldn’t help but notice an excruciating conversation between a ladyboy and an English man . The ladyboy was talking loudly in this horrific pidgin English that most of the time was incomprehensible. The English man seemed to be having a royal time , giggling and laughing at whatever this freak had to say .

Why would an English man travel half way around the world to a bar in Kampot to converse with a ladyboy who can hardly string a sentence together??

The mind boggles.

I guess the English man leads a very sad and depressing existence back in good auld blighty so any conversation is welcome.

Jerry Atrick wrote: ↑Thu Mar 17, 2022 7:22 pm

Mister1107 wrote: ↑Thu Mar 17, 2022 7:11 pm I’m new to Kampot

I was looking for a somewhere to eat and stopped at restaurant on the corner. ( beside “ up to u” bar)
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That might be the worst restaurant in Kampot; it's clientele is mainly 55+ year old barang Siahnoukville refugees nursing their 50c beers and eating parasitic and pesticide infused half cooked bad takes on UK council house fare and khmer food that even a kampong cham trotter would struggle to get down

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 1:56 pm

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:44 am
One case i witnessed in Kampot where the woman have been beating a guy in the face. He stayed very calm and tried to walk away but she follow and keep beating him from behind. Then he as a last resort pushed her to the ground in a apptemt to create space and get away from her. Would you say backstory did not matter there too? Some guys who only saw the part where he pushed her jumped him and he, as a victim of violence from a woman now also got beat up by full grown men. Yes, backstory can matter.

What utter crap. He could have walked faster (or even ran), jumped in a tuk tuk, gone to the bathroom and locked the door. There are ALWAYS ways to get away.

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:27 pm

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:20 pm I've been running away from obnoxious men for years, I've never had to push anyone to the ground. Ever.

Your personal experience with men is irrelevant. Having a vagina does not mean that you are allowed to attack someone that has a penis. Having a penis does not mean that you are not allowed to defend yourself from someone that has a vagina.

CaptainCanuck wrote: ↑Fri Mar 18, 2022 7:57 am

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 1:56 pm

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 11:44 am
One case i witnessed in Kampot where the woman have been beating a guy in the face. He stayed very calm and tried to walk away but she follow and keep beating him from behind. Then he as a last resort pushed her to the ground in a apptemt to create space and get away from her. Would you say backstory did not matter there too? Some guys who only saw the part where he pushed her jumped him and he, as a victim of violence from a woman now also got beat up by full grown men. Yes, backstory can matter.

What utter crap. He could have walked faster (or even ran), jumped in a tuk tuk, gone to the bathroom and locked the door. There are ALWAYS ways to get away.

Ok Roz ...now reverse the genders .... does your argument still hold water .... if not it’s simply strawman ..... but you do you .......

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 3:11 pm Maybe you are a abuser too? Hit you man black and blue to tell him that its his fault for not running away from you in time?

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Fri Mar 18, 2022 2:20 pm

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:27 pm

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:20 pm I've been running away from obnoxious men for years, I've never had to push anyone to the ground. Ever.

Your personal experience with men is irrelevant. Having a vagina does not mean that you are allowed to attack someone that has a penis. Having a penis does not mean that you are not allowed to defend yourself from someone that has a vagina.

I've never attacked anyone either, not sure where you got the idea I was defending her actions.
I don't condone what the woman did, not sure where you got that idea.
She was wrong and he was wrong, and the situation could have been avoided without resorting to a push.

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Fri Mar 18, 2022 2:35 pm

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Fri Mar 18, 2022 2:20 pm

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:27 pm

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Wed Mar 16, 2022 2:20 pm I've been running away from obnoxious men for years, I've never had to push anyone to the ground. Ever.

Your personal experience with men is irrelevant. Having a vagina does not mean that you are allowed to attack someone that has a penis. Having a penis does not mean that you are not allowed to defend yourself from someone that has a vagina.

I've never attacked anyone either, not sure where you got the idea I was defending her actions.
I don't condone what the woman did, not sure where you got that idea.
She was wrong and he was wrong, and the situation could have been avoided without resorting to a push.

That's the thing. Being punched in the face doesn't mean that you are wrong. Being stalked and repeatedly punched in the face also does not mean that you're wrong.

There is nothing in the story to indicate the man did anything wrong, you're only assuming this.

I also doubt you would describe a man punching you in the face as simply being "obnoxious".

But hey whatever floats your boat.