violet wrote: ↑Mon Mar 13, 2023 5:23 pm Which behaviour is it that you are inviting me to analyse? The two women’s? Yours? Other posters?

I actually didn’t read about 3/5 of your longer post because it was a wall of words, and the 2/5ths I did read didn’t have a hook to keep me moving through the wall. That’s a natural reaction I think.

Can you post a photo from tinder of the one you think is hot? I would find it easier to engage if I was investing time writing on a thread about a hot woman. Currently, neither of them seem attractive to me.

I can be compassionate toward messed up people but I have a low threshold of tolerance for spongers. They made life choices over a very long period of time. They seem self indulgent and selfish. These two are well past my threshold.

The only bit of compassion I have is that they may have had a tough upbringing - others have had tough upbringings and they don’t sponge sand take advantage of other people like these two have. The only other person on the forums I have strong feelings against is also a sponger. I guess that’s a trigger for me.

Good on you if you have compassion for these two, but, as you already pointed out, we each have different tolerance levels.

Private Nuts wrote: ↑Mon Mar 13, 2023 6:11 pm

violet wrote: ↑Mon Mar 13, 2023 5:23 pm Which behaviour is it that you are inviting me to analyse? The two women’s? Yours? Other posters?

I actually didn’t read about 3/5 of your longer post because it was a wall of words, and the 2/5ths I did read didn’t have a hook to keep me moving through the wall. That’s a natural reaction I think.

Can you post a photo from tinder of the one you think is hot? I would find it easier to engage if I was investing time writing on a thread about a hot woman. Currently, neither of them seem attractive to me.

I can be compassionate toward messed up people but I have a low threshold of tolerance for spongers. They made life choices over a very long period of time. They seem self indulgent and selfish. These two are well past my threshold.

The only bit of compassion I have is that they may have had a tough upbringing - others have had tough upbringings and they don’t sponge sand take advantage of other people like these two have. The only other person on the forums I have strong feelings against is also a sponger. I guess that’s a trigger for me.

Good on you if you have compassion for these two, but, as you already pointed out, we each have different tolerance levels.

Violet, why did you send a negative response to my post if you didn't read it?. Please explain how you can negatively review a post you havn't fully read. Isn't that like flying halfway across the Pacific Ocean before arrival and jumping out into the ocean and saying "I'll swim back home and write my review when I get back to land, I've seen enough".
It's alot of words because there's alot of people who jump to conclusions without enough information.
You just proved through your latest post that you had no interest in finding out new information and as a person who isn't interested in new information, how are you capable of being a person who can make a fair assessment. You're assessments are going to be the sentences Violet cherry picks to back up her/his made up mind. You're minds already made up, that's fine, I wasn't writing for people like you. I was writing for people who are curious as to how this could happen to two people who seem to have good intentions around making the world a better place.

Private Nuts wrote: ↑Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:11 pm

Pseudonomdeplume wrote: ↑Sun Mar 12, 2023 9:40 am

Private Nuts wrote: ↑Sat Mar 11, 2023 10:52 am Crikey, I think I walked past the younger one on the street about a month ago and regretted not stopping to say hi, because I met them through a friend (who now seems to have a very low opinion of them) and I'd matched with her on tinder. So I was like, oh I should have said "hey, aren't you so and so's friend", because she's pretty stunning, more than stunning, she looks like a fashion model when she doesn't have dreads. But, unfortunately I've only ever heard bad things about them. They seemed nice when I met them but the whole Yahweh mysticism thing was a bit too intense for me. But to each their own. They were nice to me when I met them, so I won't judge them on the bad gossip, so wish them luck, but you have to keep those visas up to date, you can't run forever and who would want that stress on their shoulders everyday anyway. Not a nice feeling to wake up with each morning.

I don't see anything attractive there, but maybe I've been in asia too long, and I actually look at what type of person they seem to be. That's embarrassing.

If anyone thinks they're hot, look at the young one in the photo, then remember that I told you "that's a man." Not so much?

The looks thing?, Where did you say "that's a man"?. Share the post.
Did you meet her in person or see her tinder profile?. The company in Dubai didn't think she was a man when they took that pic which she had on her tinder profile. "That's a man"?, you'd be flush in the face if she sat opposite you in a restaurant. Even if you're gay, you'd see it, so you can't use that as an excuse.
Ok so to each their own again, I said fashion model hot, did you see her tinder profile?. No.
Did you meet them in person?, No.
I feel being hot has contributed to a perception of the world which has possibly contributed to them thinking they can get away with stuff, where others couldn't.

"I actually look at what type of person they seem to be". Mate, there are people who have been married for 20 years and don't realise the type of person they're married to and you never even met them in person.

When I met her, she was chilled, she spent most of the time hanging out with a cat and occasionally contributing to the conversation. She spoke politely and introduced herself, I was off because I'd had a bad day and because I was tired and so I left first. I pretty much never saw them again, but my wiser older friends guestimated I liked her and warned me off.. They both have big personalities, the mum bigger than the daughters, but that could be a defense mechanism due to past trauma.

Now to my year 12, 2 unit, social studies, pass mark, psychoanalysis.

If you can't find them on Facebook, which you don't have to be Colombo to do, than I'd like to play cluedo with you, because you're an easy win.

So, we're all human, alot of us have gone through bad shit. That, if not addressed properly can cause problems.

So, the things I'm saying are publicly available, I'm not sharing private information, that was done via the person who posted the passport photo. As I said if you're colombo it's easy, if you can't, I want to win against you in cluedo.

I feel the mum is, and I hate hippies, I grew up in a hippy town, I'm like Eric cartmans approach when it comes to "goddamn hippies!", she's so hippy that not only would she be an eccentric in my hippy town but I think the daughter has incorporated that into her personality. I know enough to know the mums been through alot, so the daughter is mimicking the mum ,in my opinion, kind of looking for a role model, but, they're both adults, and!, They're in a foreign country. This isn't England ladies, yes you're hot, being hot gets lots of doors opened for you that wouldn't otherwise be, but somehow a downward spiral occurred.
Is it both to blame?, Is there a psychiatric evaluation needed for the mum?, how much can the British government intervene when it's not England, this is Cambodia guys, that's what I said to Aaron in Cambodia when he posted a video with him uploading videos of smoking weed from a Cambodian ip address, then he gave me shit for being a pussy. This is not your country. Respect the sovereinty of Cambodia, keep your visas in check, don't do these OTC drugs unless you have a doctor's prescription. Just respect the laws of the foreign country you're in, because you're not in Kansas anymore Dorothy.
So, I'm trying to look at it from both sides, yeah, they've been through their family stresses, they've come here, they ran out of money, they thought they could find a way because being hot has always been got them out of trouble, or maybe the mum and the daughter listened and said ok. Looks didn't work or "Yahweh "said no you can't use your looks to make money, so, they stayed optimistic, again I feel it's more the mum, I've seen the younger one do livestreams on Facebook when they've split up due to fights and she is pretty normal and cool, way too hippy for me, although as a guy, yes that's why my eternally optimistic little fella downstairs was like, "no, this could work, we could work it out, and our kids would hot as f@ck.", The man's eternal optimist that lives in his pants.
At the end of the day, it sounds like alot of people have lost probably not alot, but lots of people have lost small amounts, enough for some to consider big amounts, of money, due to their actions. That is not fair for those people and those people deserve justice.
Those people who were lost money because of their actions deserve retribution.
If there is a case for mental illness that caused this, perhaps the English taxpayer will have to foot the bill.
Being hot is not an excuse for breaking the law, in your own country or and far more importantly in a foreign country.
One of the Facebook accounts dissapeared yesterday.
I think there's alot of anger towards them, I think there's for men probably a degree of, let's not be as harsh on, because they're hot, as we would be if they were ugly men.
Dude these chicks could have easily gone to Japan and got 500 bucks a night lighting drunk Japanese business mens cigarettes and laughing at their drunken jokes.
Wow what a rant, yeah so what's the point of this rant. Respect the sovereinty of the country you're in. It doesn't matter how hot you are, always make freedom you're highest priority!, without freedom you have nothing!, and as a tourist, respecting the countries sovereignty is your highest priority.
My goal in this rant was to try to show their human side and how easily we can slip into downward spirals by not respecting laws in foreign nations. I'm hesitant to post this, maybe because, I don't know, I don't want to get too involved. I kind of got involved when I started thinking about, maybe I could date her and get over the hippy Yahweh stuff, but I don't think I could have. The final message is a message that needs to be at the forefront of all the expats on this forums minds, this is Cambodia guys, these people who say you need to adapt to the SE Asian way, brush them off, it's rubbish. Adapt to the laws of the country you're visiting or staying in, you'll sleep much easier, sorry for the rant, this threads just been on my mind alot the last couple of days. I don't know if I should post this or not, I seem to have been writing it to, well I don't know, I saw the reaction post to my first post and then it's turned into a rant trying to, I guess humanise how nice people can arrive at this type of behaviour. Just be a good person and if you're travelling and are running out of money, with no money in site, go home or go to your embassy like no joke Howard had to do to get his loan to go back to the states, the outcome will be alot better. Cheers.