Valentine's day rape
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There was a case recently where a husband was convicted of raping his wife.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/wo ... 80575.html
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/wo ... 80575.html
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I don't even remember our conversation 3 months ago, but three posts in a row with nothing but insults suggests you're the one who is pissy.The Add Jay wrote:Mekong obviously is still pissy about my comments months ago. So this one is for you Buddy!!
Back to being serious and enough of me acknowledging a man whose brain is more perforated then a U.S soldier's getting off a landing craft at Normandy.
Take a look at whats happening. You got women now who are claiming rape just because they feel guilty about sleeping with a guy who isnt too there liking. So instead of feeling guilty they blame the man. And because women are not equal. The courts rule in their favor almost 100% of the time. This is fact. I can ask any divorced guy about the horror they go through in alimony and other cost.
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But do you feel this is how it should be?Samouth wrote:i am 100 % agree with you. When it comes to humanism, Cambodia has nothing. It is really easy for tycoon and rich Cambodians to get or buy younger virgin Cambodians. Even though sometime they don't agree with the deal, but those people will do whatever to fulfill their wish.Jacket wrote:I'm sure that that happens sometimes. But for me at least, the issue at hand is not how many girls actually get raped on valentine's day. It's more that it seems to be acceptable to say "Yeah, I'd fuck a girl against her will."Samouth wrote:Yes i am feeling sick about this. Sometime rape cases in Cambodia are so funny. Some people, they went to guesthouse together and enjoyed stuff together. Then the day after, she reported to police that she was raped and demanded for compensation.Jacket wrote:I get that this is the Khmer attitude to this issue, but it's highly problematic. People are allowed to change their minds you know? If a girl says that she'll sleep with you tomorrow but she changes her mind shortly before the act, you are not entitled to fuck her. Even if both of you are already naked and you're about to put it in, if she says "no" that must be the end of it. If you proceed and have sex with her against her will, you are a rapist.Samouth wrote:It is true that young cambodian go to have sex on Valentineday. To me, i really don't feel that they were raped or whatever. If she doesn't want to have sex with him, why didn't she ask him to bring her home, not continue to hotel or guesthouse.
Men and women here alike (my wife is pretty much agreeing with what you're saying) are so indiferent and so unempathetic towards the well-being of their fellow human beings it's kind of concerning actually. In general, even if they don't say it, the S.E. Asian spirit seems to be "It's OK to abuse people for your own gain."
Goes right back to my argument about the Asians being behind the curve when it comes to humanism.
Right it's really ok to abuse people for your own gain in Cambodian, especially when you have money and power. i think i don't need to give you some examples as you might have seen a lots, since you are living in Cambodia.
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Well, from the article it sounds like that is a pretty clear case of rape. The secret videoing takes it to a whole different level of creepy.Mrs Stroppy wrote:There was a case recently where a husband was convicted of raping his wife.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/wo ... 80575.html
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MekongMouse. It shouldn't be like this. I wish Cambodia has a better society.
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If you know a lot, know enough to make them respect you, if you are stupid, be stupid enough so they can pity you.
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This is exactly what I stated. Whatever.Samouth wrote:Yes i am feeling sick about this. Sometime rape cases in Cambodia are so funny. Some people, they went to guesthouse together and enjoyed stuff together. Then the day after, she reported to police that she was raped and demanded for compensation.Jacket wrote:I get that this is the Khmer attitude to this issue, but it's highly problematic. People are allowed to change their minds you know? If a girl says that she'll sleep with you tomorrow but she changes her mind shortly before the act, you are not entitled to fuck her. Even if both of you are already naked and you're about to put it in, if she says "no" that must be the end of it. If you proceed and have sex with her against her will, you are a rapist.Samouth wrote:It is true that young cambodian go to have sex on Valentineday. To me, i really don't feel that they were raped or whatever. If she doesn't want to have sex with him, why didn't she ask him to bring her home, not continue to hotel or guesthouse.
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If you use your financial power to abuse and manipulate what you want especially those living in poverty of a certain age, to my eyes you are a rapist. Even when he or she says yes.
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So, in other words "people who go to prostitutes are rapists."flying chicken wrote:If you use your financial power to abuse and manipulate what you want especially those living in poverty of a certain age, to my eyes you are a rapist. Even when he or she says yes.
Is that what you're saying?
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No. Let me put it this way: if you see someone starving or in dire of financial situation putting themselves out there...can you get yourself to do it?Jacket wrote:So, in other words "people who go to prostitutes are rapists."flying chicken wrote:If you use your financial power to abuse and manipulate what you want especially those living in poverty of a certain age, to my eyes you are a rapist. Even when he or she says yes.
Is that what you're saying?
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LTOs and mekongmike debate in the earlier pages are mind provoking. I.e. Where do we think it is acceptable between rape and consensus? It depends what mind set you are coming from.
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