Why do Men Insist on Solving Imaginary Problems?

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Re: Why do Men Insist on Solving Imaginary Problems?

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newkidontheblock wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2020 10:34 am The Europeans have this habit of wanting to kiss people that they are not married to as a sign of respect. Generally, just after meeting them.

I feel uncomfortable kissing someone I am not married to, or a small adorable baby (family related, of course). Missus is uncomfortable too, and steps back and throws up a quick sampech to stop it from happening.

Maybe the hugging is a cultural misunderstanding?

Just trying to understand it from all points of view.
It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
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rozzieoz wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 9:58 am
newkidontheblock wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2020 10:34 am The Europeans have this habit of wanting to kiss people that they are not married to as a sign of respect. Generally, just after meeting them.

I feel uncomfortable kissing someone I am not married to, or a small adorable baby (family related, of course). Missus is uncomfortable too, and steps back and throws up a quick sampech to stop it from happening.

Maybe the hugging is a cultural misunderstanding?

Just trying to understand it from all points of view.
It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
You talkin about me ?
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
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Duncan wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:08 am
rozzieoz wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 9:58 am
newkidontheblock wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2020 10:34 am The Europeans have this habit of wanting to kiss people that they are not married to as a sign of respect. Generally, just after meeting them.

I feel uncomfortable kissing someone I am not married to, or a small adorable baby (family related, of course). Missus is uncomfortable too, and steps back and throws up a quick sampech to stop it from happening.

Maybe the hugging is a cultural misunderstanding?

Just trying to understand it from all points of view.
It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
You talkin about me ?
You can hug me any time Duncan :)
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rozzieoz wrote:It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
Maybe he mistook you for a girly bar worker?

If you’re 150 cm or so, black hair, dark skin, name sounds similar to neang, or srey, higher chance of a mistake.

Also super beer googles can turn any foreigner lady into a Khmer KTV girl.

Just supposing, of course. I don’t hang out in girly bars, and I don’t drink beer, either.

Or maybe the western guy just wasn’t a gentleman.
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rozzieoz wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:20 am
Duncan wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:08 am
rozzieoz wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 9:58 am
newkidontheblock wrote: Wed Jun 17, 2020 10:34 am The Europeans have this habit of wanting to kiss people that they are not married to as a sign of respect. Generally, just after meeting them.

I feel uncomfortable kissing someone I am not married to, or a small adorable baby (family related, of course). Missus is uncomfortable too, and steps back and throws up a quick sampech to stop it from happening.

Maybe the hugging is a cultural misunderstanding?

Just trying to understand it from all points of view.
It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
You talkin about me ?
You can hug me any time Duncan :)
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
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Re: Why do Men Insist on Solving Imaginary Problems?

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newkidontheblock wrote: Thu Jul 09, 2020 10:21 am
rozzieoz wrote:It was a western guy who is used to being a Sex God in girly bars and felt entitled to manhandle me as well.
Maybe he mistook you for a girly bar worker?

If you’re 150 cm or so, black hair, dark skin, name sounds similar to neang, or srey, higher chance of a mistake.

Also super beer googles can turn any foreigner lady into a Khmer KTV girl.

Just supposing, of course. I don’t hang out in girly bars, and I don’t drink beer, either.

Or maybe the western guy just wasn’t a gentleman.
It was at Oscar's, not your regular girly bar.
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