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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Cam Nivag » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:36 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:31 pm


I changed my number, moved to a new town, and she still found me. Last time she was at my job, she thinks I was fired so I have not taken my moto to work. Since we split up, the couple of encounters we had, I don't even look her in the eye. Thanks to those with helpful advice.
Maybe she put one of those trackers in your phone.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Spigzy » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:37 pm

What if she is following this thread too ...

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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Spigzy » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:40 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:31 pm
Since we split up, the couple of encounters we had, I don't even look her in the eye.
Does it go a little like this?

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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by General Mackevili » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:44 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:31 pm

I changed my number, moved to a new town, and she still found me. Last time she was at my job, she thinks I was fired so I have not taken my moto to work. Since we split up, the couple of encounters we had, I don't even look her in the eye. Thanks to those with helpful advice.
Again, I think you're accidently making it a 'game' for her. She calls you, you change your number. She stops by, you move houses, and she finds you. She comes to your work, you stop taking your moto. She's getting reaction after reaction from you. Can we safely assume she'll soon realize you still work there, but have just been taking a tuk-tuk instead of driving yourself? What then? New job? Another new house? I'd just stop reacting to her completely. Next she's going to tell you she's pregnant. Don't bite.

And be honest, is there a small chance you two love birds might end up back together?
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by nouseforaname » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:58 pm

clutchcargo wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:34 pm
phuketrichard wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:03 pm
if she is a upper class lady with upper class friends, start taking home bg's from the streets or Sorya and she wont want to have anything more to do with you once she and her friends knows what ur up to
This is the bit that makes no sense.
  • OP says she's runs 2 businesses, has a ton of money and is well connected
  • he is low key teacher with little money
  • they met in a bar albeit he suspects she was previously a bar girl..
If she is upper class why would she bother?? Unless she's a nutter..

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Also the suggestion to take on another girl I think could be a double edged sword...On the one hand, it may work..she'll realise you have someone else or a butterfly and leave you alone. OTOH and especially if she's a nutter, she may take revenge on the other girl...
I said she manages two business and has money. Most khmer women make at most $2, 300 a month. For a woman to pay for multiple holidays, plastic surgery and constantly travels and buys whatever she wants. To me, she has money. Yes, teacher with no money. And since when is a bar- sentiment for low class.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by nouseforaname » Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:59 pm

General Mackevili wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:44 pm
nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:31 pm

I changed my number, moved to a new town, and she still found me. Last time she was at my job, she thinks I was fired so I have not taken my moto to work. Since we split up, the couple of encounters we had, I don't even look her in the eye. Thanks to those with helpful advice.
Again, I think you're accidently making it a 'game' for her. She calls you, you change your number. She stops by, you move houses, and she finds you. She comes to your work, you stop taking your moto. She's getting reaction after reaction from you. Can we safely assume she'll soon realize you still work there, but have just been taking a tuk-tuk instead of driving yourself? What then? New job? Another new house? I'd just stop reacting to her completely. Next she's going to tell you she's pregnant. Don't bite.

And be honest, is there a small chance you two love birds might end up back together?
You may have a point there about moving all around. 100% sure not getting back together.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Brody » Tue Feb 26, 2019 4:02 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:58 pm
For a woman to pay for multiple holidays, plastic surgery and constantly travels and buys whatever she wants. To me, she has money. Yes, teacher with no money. And since when is a bar- sentiment for low class.

Holidays, plastic surgery, buys whatever she wants, yadda yadda...sounds like she's juggling multiple overseas sponsors.

[Mod Edit: Over the top.]
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Cam Nivag » Tue Feb 26, 2019 4:14 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 2:39 pm
I started to write a dossier about our relationship and decided not to post it. You all are right, my problem. I just thought I could get some non-judgmental objective help. So maybe you willread about it. Enjoy
Post it! People will learn from it. I posted about maybe witnessing a murder and not doing anything about it. That's what we do here.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by IraHayes » Tue Feb 26, 2019 4:18 pm

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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by clutchcargo » Tue Feb 26, 2019 4:54 pm

nouseforaname wrote:
Tue Feb 26, 2019 3:58 pm
And since when is a bar- sentiment for low class.
No doubt there's some pretty classy bars around PP.

OTOH if we're talking a regular hostess bar, that's a different story. Then again, go to a club like Darlin Darlin at Nagaworld and you'll some pretty classy looking escorts there with nice hair/makeup, expensive clothes, shoes and jewelry but asking $100-200 and up.
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