how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by explorer » Mon Feb 25, 2019 3:45 am

frank lee bent wrote:
Sun Feb 24, 2019 8:57 pm
Maybe do some volunteer work
If you do anything to benefit other people, your thought process will be about the positive things you can do, not the negative things you see around you.

When you genuinely help other people, you can change their lives. They will really appreciate you, and be your best friend for the rest of your life.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by John Bingham » Mon Feb 25, 2019 4:06 am

I was cynical and bitter long before I came here. This place is like a breath of fresh air to me. No need for the constant gloomy stuff.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by Jcml19 » Mon Feb 25, 2019 6:40 am

You make the most of your own experiences.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by RickyBobby » Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:36 am

Its good to have a purpose. I think without that, its too easy to get lost as it were, and perhaps a bit depressed. Do you suffer depression at all?

I would go someplace that makes you happy. Why are you in PP in the first place? Are you happier back home wherever that is? Are life circumstances dictating your expat status? Do you have limited choices or resources? These elements could all contribute to being cynical and bitter.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by clutchcargo » Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:08 am

RickyBobby wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:36 am
Its good to have a purpose. I think without that, its too easy to get lost as it were, and perhaps a bit depressed. Do you suffer depression at all?
Like finding God? :whip: O:-)

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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by hanno » Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:23 am

I think a cynical and bitter cnut will be a cynical and bitter cnut anywhere.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by RickyBobby » Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:55 am

clutchcargo wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:08 am
RickyBobby wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:36 am
Its good to have a purpose. I think without that, its too easy to get lost as it were, and perhaps a bit depressed. Do you suffer depression at all?
Like finding God? :whip: O:-)

"Dear Lord Baby Jesus, Lyin in a Manger"
Finding God is not having purpose, however in doing so, you may find purpose, but not necessarily.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by pczz » Mon Feb 25, 2019 12:05 pm

The best way to avoid becoming depressed and cynical in Phnom Penh is to move to Shanghaiville.
There you can become fully desolated and suicidal and Phnom Penh will appear to be a luxurious chinese free zone
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by God » Mon Feb 25, 2019 12:55 pm

clutchcargo wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:08 am
RickyBobby wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:36 am
Its good to have a purpose. I think without that, its too easy to get lost as it were, and perhaps a bit depressed. Do you suffer depression at all?
Like finding God? :whip: O:-)

"Dear Lord Baby Jesus, Lyin in a Manger"
Just use the search button to find him.
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Re: how to avoid becoming cynical and bitter in PP

Post by pczz » Mon Feb 25, 2019 2:23 pm

God wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 12:55 pm
clutchcargo wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 10:08 am
RickyBobby wrote:
Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:36 am
Its good to have a purpose. I think without that, its too easy to get lost as it were, and perhaps a bit depressed. Do you suffer depression at all?
Like finding God? :whip: O:-)

"Dear Lord Baby Jesus, Lyin in a Manger"
Just use the search button to find him.
When i try that it always comes up with General Mackevili :bow:
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