the staring and the spying

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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by davegorman » Mon Feb 18, 2019 7:18 pm

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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by davegorman » Mon Feb 18, 2019 7:18 pm

Duncan wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 6:59 pm
rozzieoz wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 5:37 pm
I turned 50 on Friday. :)

Your kidding us . Was that avatar photo of you taken 20 years ago ?
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by Artisan » Mon Feb 18, 2019 7:20 pm

curiosity wrote:
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Hi folks,

what is your best reaction to the staring?
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by tireswang » Mon Feb 18, 2019 7:46 pm

Tis a piece of cake Living in Cambo after 13 years in the Barbaric Philippines. Much less "stink eyes" here, although I have been keeping it riel and have only lived here for 18 months in the more frequently vistied places. Koh Kong and Koh Sdach was as rough and remote as I choose to spend extended time in...I'm sure the stares and gawking are similar to Pi. in the boonies...I like being JUST another Barang amongst the many here in S.R....and have not noticed staring and spying.
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by rozzieoz » Mon Feb 18, 2019 9:08 pm

Duncan wrote:
rozzieoz wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 5:37 pm
I turned 50 on Friday. :)

Your kidding us . Was that avatar photo of you taken 20 years ago ?
You’re a sweetheart. <3
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by RickyBobby » Tue Feb 19, 2019 12:45 am

Duncan wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 6:59 pm
rozzieoz wrote:
Mon Feb 18, 2019 5:37 pm
I turned 50 on Friday. :)

Your kidding us . Was that avatar photo of you taken 20 years ago ?
I took that photo last month. Seriously. She does look fantastic and surely not the big 5. 0. !
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by RickyBobby » Tue Feb 19, 2019 1:21 am

Barang's have a reputation for having a large dik. That's what the girls tell each other and giggle about. I have never noticed anyone checking out my (or others) nether regions though, and I am fairly observant about this kind of thing.
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by GMJS-CEO » Tue Feb 19, 2019 2:57 am

Lady across the street would always stare at me and chat it up with the other old lady. I just returned the favor stared and pretended I was talking to my mate about them.

Not to be taken to seriously, they aren't meaning to be rude.
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by Daum Penh Stalker » Tue Feb 19, 2019 7:48 am

I think the staring comes the fact that Khmer and foreigners are very different in nearly every way, tangible and intangible.
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Re: the staring and the spying

Post by newkidontheblock » Tue Feb 19, 2019 9:06 am

WheneverI would go to the market with missus, I get stared at and gossiped about. When I sat down at the food stalls to eat, more staring and gossiping. Finally one of the gossipers confessed to missus.

She was so impressed that her man was accompanying her to the market, carrying groceries and eating with her. Instead of the normal man tradition of slinking off to the KTV with a bunch of hired girls under his arm.

I’m sure the Khmer men must be gossiping about how stupid I am accompanying missus to the market, instead of slinking off to the KTV and hiring a bunch of girls for company.

To each their own.
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