Cam Nivag wrote: ↑Wed Oct 31, 2018 6:44 pm What? No argument? Shit, I wanted an argument. Now I'm sad.

Hotdigr wrote: ↑Wed Oct 31, 2018 6:48 pm

newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Wed Oct 31, 2018 1:01 pm I’m not an authority of any sort. Lots of Khmer culture confuse me. I mention it because I am confused and wish to gain more insight and wisdom.

As for missus being the first? The first who isn’t using me as an ATM, not looking for status or advantage, loves me for being me, and willing to jump into an uncertain future just to be by my side? Then guilty as charged. To me she’s like a girl from the movies. The one that can’t possibly exist in real life.

The gay friend who wants to kill himself is currently in Thailand and has posted a happy picture of himself and his new beau. The same beau that the other gay friend wants desperately to grab on to. The wheels of local confusion turn.

New Kid, I will give it to you honestly ok? You come across as the younger brother who DESPERATELY wants to be accepted by the "cool kids". Think before you post. Think " is any one really going to be interested in the mundane things that are happening to me, that have happened to them in the past". I understand that you are obviously very lonely out in the province, being the only barang and only English speaker. But DON'T just post the first thing that comes into your head every time. Some of your posts are naive, some insightful, some interesting. But overall - you bore the shit out of me at least. At best I give a condescending little laugh at your impetuosity. No offence meant mate, but think hard before posting your every thought and every bowel movement.

newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Oct 30, 2018 1:31 am A few or missus’ friends have worrisome behaviors. On Facebook they post how rich they are. Go on holiday, eat at expensive restaurants, buy luxury items, etc. Yet complain to missus how desperately poor they are - ask her for loans, ask her to cook food, borrow clothes, etc. During the ‘rich’ times, no thought of inviting her to join. But during the poor times, numero uno. Latest drama is that one is threatening to kill himself in Thailand in her presence unless she gives him a thousand. Plus pays for the cost for him to go to Thailand to do said deed.

Is this just normal Khmer psychology?