I'm Dating a Cambodian Woman in France - Gold Digger or No?

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Re: I'm Dating a Cambodian Woman in France - Gold Digger or No?

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kiwiincambodia wrote: ↑Thu May 24, 2018 12:57 pm
AmericanSteve wrote:
My advice: get her pregnant as soon as possible so this way, if and when she dumps you, at least you would have gotten something valuable out of her.
As someone who was married to a Khmer and now is raising 2 daughters by myself, that has to be the worst advice anyone has ever given on this forum.
I think Steve is assuming no one pays maintenance here. Big mistake.

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I think Steve is assuming no one pays maintenance here. Big mistake.
I'm not assuming that. I have paid or am paying child support for 4 kids and 90% of the time from overseas.
What kind of a father would think that, one way or the other, he isn't going to have to pay for his kids?
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If she gives him a kid, especially a son, then its be definition a success.
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Unless she gets custody.

Why 'especially a son'?
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Even if she gets custody it's a success.
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AmericanSteve wrote:
As someone who was married to a Khmer and now is raising 2 daughters by myself, that has to be the worst advice anyone has ever given on this forum.
Why are you raising them by yourself?
This is Asia - get a wife! Come to China and I'll hook you up.
Chinese girls love kiwis.

Seriously though, are you kidding?
You are lucky enough to actually get the kids and you're whining about it!

How much did it cost you to get custody?
Not much I bet.
Not whining at all just stating a fact. Raising them alone is not easy and it’s not easy on the kids without a mother, but we make it work.

No thanks, not interested in another wife any time soon. Been there, done that. Have more fun just the 3 of us.

After living in HK a while I know Chinese love the kiwis but in all honestly, who doesn’t?
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kiwiincambodia wrote: ↑Thu May 24, 2018 1:15 pmAfter living in HK a while I know Chinese love the kiwis but in all honestly, who doesn’t?
I must resist... :dm:
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Huh, sounds to me like a gold digger, but who knows...
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So how did your talk go? Did she agree to your terms?
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Re: I'm Dating a Cambodian Woman in France - Gold Digger or No?

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bangkokhooker wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 9:52 pm
Kammekor wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 4:45 pm
guillaume382 wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 4:25 pm She told yesterday, her friend lost her baby in belly (3months ago). And so she told me she scared about taking pills yes
Unfortunately miscarriages are not uncommon,
translation - miscarriages are not common.
10% is not common?
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She does not accept my terms. She already invite a lot of people to our wedding, and she doesnt want to postpone it.
I change my mind a lot. is she afraid of loosing her face ?
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