Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 11:41 pm

John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:56 pm

guillaume382 wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:28 pm
Do you think if there is true love it is possible she lives with me 1 year ?? Because I know couple French KHMER here, they live together and have sex before marry.
They marry after 3 months

I don't think that's uncommon for couples who have committed to each other or become formally engaged. It's not Afghanistan, but it's still a fairly traditional society where casual sex is frowned upon.

yeah i think its becoming more common aye

BklynBoy wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:51 pm Sorry if I sound over the top. Maybe you should date a little more before getting married. I mean date other women?

How old are you?

Anchor Moy wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 1:52 am

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 11:41 pm

John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:56 pm

guillaume382 wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:28 pm
Do you think if there is true love it is possible she lives with me 1 year ?? Because I know couple French KHMER here, they live together and have sex before marry.
They marry after 3 months

I don't think that's uncommon for couples who have committed to each other or become formally engaged. It's not Afghanistan, but it's still a fairly traditional society where casual sex is frowned upon.

yeah i think its becoming more common aye

Yes it is, but then sleeping together is as binding as a ceremony. You don't get to change your mind after a trial period (or not without major hassle.)

@OP A couple of things - If your g/f agrees to live with you for a year, she will expect either marriage or at least compensation for making her a "fallen woman". And maybe that's why she wants the expensive ring as a sort of insurance. But if you get officially engaged and give her a decent ring, and the family agree, then perhaps she will move in with you until the wedding. IMO this is the compromise you will have to make if you are sure that you want to go ahead with this. (And have sex with your beloved before July 2019, lol.)
Also, have you thought about birth control, and have you discussed with her about how many kids you want ? I'm just suggesting you have this talk with her because you sound a bit naive. It's possible that she will want to have babies right away. Are you up for that ?
Try to work out what the expectations are on both sides before you make any major commitment.

phuketrichard wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 3:44 pm

guillaume382 wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 3:12 pm

Anchor Moy wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 1:52 am

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 11:41 pm

John Bingham wrote: ↑Tue May 22, 2018 10:56 pm

I don't think that's uncommon for couples who have committed to each other or become formally engaged. It's not Afghanistan, but it's still a fairly traditional society where casual sex is frowned upon.

yeah i think its becoming more common aye

Yes it is, but then sleeping together is as binding as a ceremony. You don't get to change your mind after a trial period (or not without major hassle.)

@OP A couple of things - If your g/f agrees to live with you for a year, she will expect either marriage or at least compensation for making her a "fallen woman". And maybe that's why she wants the expensive ring as a sort of insurance. But if you get officially engaged and give her a decent ring, and the family agree, then perhaps she will move in with you until the wedding. IMO this is the compromise you will have to make if you are sure that you want to go ahead with this. (And have sex with your beloved before July 2019, lol.)
Also, have you thought about birth control, and have you discussed with her about how many kids you want ? I'm just suggesting you have this talk with her because you sound a bit naive. It's possible that she will want to have babies right away. Are you up for that ?
Try to work out what the expectations are on both sides before you make any major commitment.

Yes I already ask her about birth control. At start of our relationship she told me that using condoms is for slut, it is not for couple.. But with all our problems, last week, I told her, I want use condom or contraceptive pill.. She told me she is ok about condoms (she argues that pill is not good and may make her sterile). She also said it is good for her to control birth because she doesn't want our son without dad.

she wont let u fuck her, only go down on her, but she knows condoms are for sluts and pills will make her sterile>
are u sure she is a virgin?? OR>>>>>

Kammekor wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 4:01 pm

guillaume382 wrote: ↑Wed May 23, 2018 3:57 pm Can you make a clear reply ?

Me?

Many Cambodian girls feel condoms are for hookers, and many Cambodian girls are scared they will not get pregnant after using contraceptive medication for a while. I think each and every Cambodian girl knows 'a girl' who had difficulty getting pregnant after using 'the pill'. Plus, they are afraid they will get fat from taking it.