But extra-judicial killings, invading a country to steal its resources, bailing out criminal bankers...those are just dandy.

cptrelentless wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2017 6:57 pm I object to any beating with an implement, that's just sadism. I got the cane at school, the cunts enjoyed it. I see no point in beating shit out of your child, as it just inures them to pain. Kids have not developed the concept of logic until they're around 10 to 12, though. You cannot rationalise with them and have them comprehend what you mean, much like a dog. So, with the baby if after a number of 'No's and a finger-wag he still fiddles with something he get's a rap on his hands. Otherwise it's an open hand on the bum or shoulders, not anywhere it'll cause significant pain, this is about over-stepping the line a number of times not creating a household full of psychopaths. My seven-year-old I smack maybe once a year, just to keep her on her toes. No, truthfully, it's about the final straw, there needs to be the nuclear deterrent. You do it once in a blue moon. My wife has said to me she would rather I look after the kids than her because my parenting style is not the same as her "Chinese" style. From what I can see that style involves yellings and beatings. She'll grab things and hit the kids with them, things like chop sticks and thin shit that forms a cut. I've been squashing down on this behaviour but it is very much learnt, her upbringing was beating with canes and shit, and general servitude as the non-direct lineage biological child. A lot of people here look after kids that aren't theirs, and those are the ones getting shit most of the time. You are a dollar item.

Digg3r wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2017 12:38 pm

theres a big difference between a spanking and a beating,

Not in the child's eyes there isn't.

I do not use physical discipline with my children. I do not want them to behave through fear or intimidation. I have a no nonsense regime in my house and I do not tolerate any bad behaviour however the punishments are limited to time out and/or loss of privileges. I rarely have to enforce the rules.

it is now iliegal in the UK to Spank your own child
and now there is a generation full of soft cunts,

So bringing up a generation without physical punishment has lead to a generation of non-violent (soft cunt) people. I would say that proves the point against physical discipline.

Having nieces and nephews and whatever the godchildren are does not give you any experience in parenting unless you are responsible for the upbringing.

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Mon Jun 12, 2017 11:51 pm

John Bingham wrote: ↑Mon Jun 12, 2017 11:32 pm

Jamie_Lambo wrote: ↑Mon Jun 12, 2017 10:55 pm i see nothing wrong with a kid getting a spanked bottom as a line of discipline

How many kids do you have Jamie?

none, not that it makes much different
my kids would be likely to get a spanked bottom if they deserve it
its not like bringing out the belt is it
the spank is more to do with the shock factor rather than actually hurting the kid
(im a parenting expert obviously lol)

CEOCambodiaNews wrote: ↑Sun Jun 11, 2017 6:11 pmMore than two thirds of parents still use physical punishment against their children, according to research by the charity World Vision .... there is still much to be done ... it said. Aimylee Gabriel, "child protection" manager at World Vision ...