Sore,no the kids mum is aNZer. And I meant the everyone says this is what cambo mums are like about the MIL.That's in regards to things like being outright rude to me etc

Yep we are in NZ

The problem is both the ex and the MIL.she's not Cambodian she's white also. The latest from yesterday is now his oldest child has said she wants to wipe my husband completely.this is after many years of her mother alienating the kids from their dad. She has primary care. She has not stuck to visita...

Has been said many many times by my husband and also mediated by a cousin how we feel etc. All she ever says is she is taking the kids side not the exes etc. I just want to try and make some headway because I believe family is important and it takes a toll on my marriage because it gets me down. My ...

Please help! I am married and my husbands family is very fractured. My MIL feels her sons aren't around enough and don't care. The reason her son isn't around is because his ex(not married but children together) works for them and is always there. He feels awkward and like they are loyal to her over...

Thanks everyone really do appreciate the feedback 😊 and well of course I'm hoping he's not going to start beating me in a few years but there's we things that are deal breakers in a marriage regardless. I guess I've experienced the in law situation before (2nd marriage for me) & it was awful,the...

Wow! That's quite a deviation from the question I asked l. Would have been helpful if perhaps my question was do you think my husband is going to be faithful. I've actually been friends with him for over 20 years so whether he is committed or a hard worker is not of a concern to me. I was just looki...

I have meet his parents just not spent a huge amount of time with them. Yeah there is quite a large Cambodian community here. Well I always cook for him and make his lunch for work maybe I should tell him to let her know that lol. I guess anyone wants to win over their in laws regardless just though...

He is,however they're not so much

No we live in NZ. As do his family. I'm not super familiar with their culture though I love to read so have been finding out what I can online.