taabarang wrote:"prahkeitouj"]Cheater is still cheater! Cheat is not acceptable. I don't understand how can they live without trust each other

Easy, they probably or the woman at least was the victim of a traditional "arranged marriage" Until Cambodians stop looking at their daughters as a source of income like water buffalo, cattle, or chickens, marital unhappiness is likely to continue. Women are becoming better educated and and are finding an economic value separate from their chosen spouse. Until the value of female virginity prior to marriage disappears this sad form of enslavement will continue. Looking for a partner who is sexually naive is as silly as basing one'rs decision on one who is sexually experienced. There are so many other factors that must be considered. And visiting a fortune teller will not reveal them.

Sir_Quality_U_Feel wrote:

prahkeitouj wrote:Cheater is still cheater! Cheat is not acceptable. I don't understand how can they live without trust each other?

Sometimes there is trust but people make stupid decisions. A lot of times, alcohol plays a role. Or other substances.

prahkeitouj wrote:

taabarang wrote:"prahkeitouj"]Cheater is still cheater! Cheat is not acceptable. I don't understand how can they live without trust each other

Easy, they probably or the woman at least was the victim of a traditional "arranged marriage" Until Cambodians stop looking at their daughters as a source of income like water buffalo, cattle, or chickens, marital unhappiness is likely to continue. Women are becoming better educated and and are finding an economic value separate from their chosen spouse. Until the value of female virginity prior to marriage disappears this sad form of enslavement will continue. Looking for a partner who is sexually naive is as silly as basing one'rs decision on one who is sexually experienced. There are so many other factors that must be considered. And visiting a fortune teller will not reveal them.

Sometimes I don't like some part of my culture that keeps women in a well, and they can't see the ocean. I think being a son is luckier than being a daughter, he can go to school, doesn't need to do housework, can have girlfriend, can go far place.... ect. When I was young I envy my brother and other boys. I wondered what is the mistake of being a daughter? I was born in the city but I still get lost because I don't know many places. I never had boyfriend until I was 26. My first date when I was 23. My colleague dated me but I took 1 year to make decision to have dinner with him.

prahkeitouj wrote:

Sir_Quality_U_Feel wrote:

prahkeitouj wrote:Cheater is still cheater! Cheat is not acceptable. I don't understand how can they live without trust each other?

Sometimes there is trust but people make stupid decisions. A lot of times, alcohol plays a role. Or other substances.

For some people but sometimes it's excuse of a cheater.

Samouth wrote: ↑Fri Mar 13, 2015 9:09 am For Cambodia culture, this is really serious. Some cases end up worse. i.e, they might have to divorce or the husband might have killed both his wife and her lover. However this case has an happy ending at the end. They eventually got back together and continue their couple life. It is really hard to find such an easy going and forgiving Cambodian guy when it comes to such case.