ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 9:29 am

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 12:50 am Lol dont try make it a thing about Germans. They are very very nice here in Cambodia even if they are quite thin in numbers when it comes to Phnom penh.

I met people like that from all over the world and the thing in common is that they have mental disorders (in my opinion) that never made them get anywhere with ladies and they thought coming to Cambodia would be a quick fix that would solve all their problems. Then when they get told of even here instead of being treated as a god as they had thought they loose their mind with the following reaction displayed in the video.

You might be onto something as he was clearly hitting [on] her

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 1:43 pm

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 9:29 am

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 12:50 am Lol dont try make it a thing about Germans. They are very very nice here in Cambodia even if they are quite thin in numbers when it comes to Phnom penh.

I met people like that from all over the world and the thing in common is that they have mental disorders (in my opinion) that never made them get anywhere with ladies and they thought coming to Cambodia would be a quick fix that would solve all their problems. Then when they get told of even here instead of being treated as a god as they had thought they loose their mind with the following reaction displayed in the video.

You might be onto something as he was clearly hitting [on] her

If you have a shitty view on local women or women in general that will show even if you are not actually hitting [on] them.

Surely you did not mean that this guy is a ladies man with deep respect for them?

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 2:57 pm

You never mentioned respect for women. You were suggesting he has a mental disorder that makes him unable to get anywhere with ladies, and for that reason he's punching a bartender because she wants to close the bar and not keep serving him. I thought that was a funny assessment.

When I see people like that I think more along the lines of a bad drunk with a violent past.

Whether he respects women, Cambodians, or anyone for that matter I couldn't tell you.
Nor if he has a wife, or a family, or what he's like when he's not a drunk idiot.

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 5:15 pm

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 2:57 pm

You never mentioned respect for women. You were suggesting he has a mental disorder that makes him unable to get anywhere with ladies, and for that reason he's punching a bartender because she wants to close the bar and not keep serving him. I thought that was a funny assessment.

When I see people like that I think more along the lines of a bad drunk with a violent past.

Whether he respects women, Cambodians, or anyone for that matter I couldn't tell you.
Nor if he has a wife, or a family, or what he's like when he's not a drunk idiot.

You really dont think that what i said first goes hand in hand with respect for women if someone does have that view?

The reason i make this assumption is that i seen enough of this type during my decade living in Cambodia to straight away make this assumption both from his actions and the way he is behaving in the video beside the punch itself.

We are both just speculating and talking from our own experiences but i would not say that its necessarily just a case of a violent drunk when you attack female staff in a establishment. Then there is something more missing in the persons head. Usually.

ItWasntMe wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 7:48 pm No, I can't say I believe that having a mental disorder that makes you unattractive to women necessarily means that you don't respect them, or that it comes with the capacity to use violence out of nowhere. Even if you have the idea that Cambodian women may be easier to score with due to financial / cultural differences.

Generally, people who use violence as a tool have different issues.
Violent family, bullied in school, damaged from war etc.

Mental disorders can make you aggressive, but that's not the same as being violent.
There are studies that suggests certain genes can play a part, but the individuals still need to be triggered by some kind of trauma before these genes plays out their role.

Or in short, I don't think this dude got violent because he hasn't been getting laid enough. If getting laid was an issue, let's not forget where we are. Anyone and their cat can get laid 10x a day here it's not really a factor.

Edit: Just realized I'm really stoned, might have to revisit this at a later time.

Albror wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 5:15 pm We are both just speculating and talking from our own experiences but i would not say that its necessarily just a case of a violent drunk when you attack female staff in a establishment. Then there is something more missing in the persons head. Usually.