Chad Sexington wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 12:37 pm

phnompenhsteve wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 11:02 am I get that what he did was wrong, but what's with all the blatant homophobia/transphobia in this thread? What he did is on him and shouldn't be reflective of an entire community.

Where is all the “homophobia and transphobia” in this thread?
Is calling out a trans’ person for trying diminish the crime of sexual abusing children, actually “transphobia”?
Or is calling out a guy, who happens to be gay, for grooming an underage student for sex, really “homophobia”?
As far as I can recall, this thread contains a single post that refers to the label “queer”, possibly inappropriate? but as I understand it, it’s a label worn by the members of that “community”
So, again, where’s all the phobia?
Have a word with yourself, do you actually think you’ve the moral high ground, criticizing folk who are rightfully disgusted by the antics of this pair of degenerates?
You get what he did is wrong, “but”, there is no but here, just a degenerate who happens to be gay, and it’s not homophobic to point that fact out, it’s entirely relevant if it’s an underage male student, he propositioned for sex.
If the gay community have a problem with anything here, it should be with the gay sexual predator who’s bringing shame on their community.
And before you start, nobody’s saying all gays/trans’ are degenerates, nor are they saying all degenerates are gay/trans, but some of them are, so stop deflecting from the real villains with your “whatever-phobics” bullshit.

Raving Queer

A gay man that goes around parading about his sexually.

phnompenhsteve wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 12:59 pm People referring to himi as a raging queer...EArlier in the thread people were making jokes about others choosing different pronouns.
I'm against the grooming of minors too. I was referring to the comments that are making generalizations about our community over the acts of one man.

Chad Sexington wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 12:37 pm

phnompenhsteve wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 11:02 am I get that what he did was wrong, but what's with all the blatant homophobia/transphobia in this thread? What he did is on him and shouldn't be reflective of an entire community.

Where is all the “homophobia and transphobia” in this thread?
Is calling out a trans’ person for trying diminish the crime of sexual abusing children, actually “transphobia”?
Or is calling out a guy, who happens to be gay, for grooming an underage student for sex, really “homophobia”?
As far as I can recall, this thread contains a single post that refers to the label “queer”, possibly inappropriate? but as I understand it, it’s a label worn by the members of that “community”
So, again, where’s all the phobia?
Have a word with yourself, do you actually think you’ve the moral high ground, criticizing folk who are rightfully disgusted by the antics of this pair of degenerates?
You get what he did is wrong, “but”, there is no but here, just a degenerate who happens to be gay, and it’s not homophobic to point that fact out, it’s entirely relevant if it’s an underage male student, he propositioned for sex.
If the gay community have a problem with anything here, it should be with the gay sexual predator who’s bringing shame on their community.
And before you start, nobody’s saying all gays/trans’ are degenerates, nor are they saying all degenerates are gay/trans, but some of them are, so stop deflecting from the real villains with your “whatever-phobics” bullshit.

violet wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 1:37 pm If we’re going to talk about it can we label it correctly? Grates me when people are labelled pedophiles (pre pubescent attracted) when they are actually either Hebephiles (pubescent 11-14) or Ephebophiles (mid to late adolescent - 15 and over)

CaptainCanuck wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 1:10 pm

phnompenhsteve wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 12:59 pm People referring to himi as a raging queer...EArlier in the thread people were making jokes about others choosing different pronouns.
I'm against the grooming of minors too. I was referring to the comments that are making generalizations about our community over the acts of one man.

Chad Sexington wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 12:37 pm

phnompenhsteve wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 11:02 am I get that what he did was wrong, but what's with all the blatant homophobia/transphobia in this thread? What he did is on him and shouldn't be reflective of an entire community.

Where is all the “homophobia and transphobia” in this thread?
Is calling out a trans’ person for trying diminish the crime of sexual abusing children, actually “transphobia”?
Or is calling out a guy, who happens to be gay, for grooming an underage student for sex, really “homophobia”?
As far as I can recall, this thread contains a single post that refers to the label “queer”, possibly inappropriate? but as I understand it, it’s a label worn by the members of that “community”
So, again, where’s all the phobia?
Have a word with yourself, do you actually think you’ve the moral high ground, criticizing folk who are rightfully disgusted by the antics of this pair of degenerates?
You get what he did is wrong, “but”, there is no but here, just a degenerate who happens to be gay, and it’s not homophobic to point that fact out, it’s entirely relevant if it’s an underage male student, he propositioned for sex.
If the gay community have a problem with anything here, it should be with the gay sexual predator who’s bringing shame on their community.
And before you start, nobody’s saying all gays/trans’ are degenerates, nor are they saying all degenerates are gay/trans, but some of them are, so stop deflecting from the real villains with your “whatever-phobics” bullshit.

Your hypocrisy is only exceeded by your lack of self awareness .... Both you and this pedo wear your 'gayness' as a badge of honour but should someone not from 'your community' mention it ,all of a sudden it's homophobia .... Get over yourself ... You no more are a spokes person for the gay community then that pedo is representative of said community ....

John Bingham wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 1:03 pm I called him a "raving queer" which I feel was entirely appropriate. If you feel offended that's unfortunate, maybe you shouldn't call yourselves queer if you don't want others to?



From Urban Dictionary:

Raving Queer

A gay man that goes around parading about his sexually.

violet wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 1:37 pm If we’re going to talk about it can we label it correctly? Grates me when people are labelled pedophiles (pre pubescent attracted) when they are actually either Hebephiles (pubescent 11-14) or Ephebophiles (mid to late adolescent - 15 and over)

xandreu wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 4:43 pm

violet wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 1:37 pm If we’re going to talk about it can we label it correctly? Grates me when people are labelled pedophiles (pre pubescent attracted) when they are actually either Hebephiles (pubescent 11-14) or Ephebophiles (mid to late adolescent - 15 and over)

It's strange that I just recently saw a comedy sketch where the comedian was explaining the differences between these terms, and ended it by pointing out that the reason nobody knows them is because you can't explain them to anyone without sounding like a paedophile yourself.

I thought he had a point.