Old western men with young asian girls
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The truth is, in many cases it is because of the type of women they are with. While there are a lot of different people, and some may have good girls, with good relationships, some of these relationships are with bar girls. The girls have had other foreign boyfriends before, and got money from them. This latest boyfriend is no different. The family doesn't see it as a genuine marriage. They see it as the girl getting money from the foreigner.newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:32 am Bride price is part of the usual Cambodian tradition.
Khmer mostly follow them. Are foreigners exempt?
If your better half told you that you didn’t need to show money, then good for you.
You seem to think that those who follow tradition are losers.
I can imagine that you read the book on etiquette before you arrived and then proceeded to pat the head of the first kid you saw, and then step over a sitting monk.
Because karma doesn’t apply to foreigners in the Kingdom of Wonder.
This thread is pretty interesting now discussing what kind of Khmer makes a good girlfriend and possible (eventual) partner in life.
Please keep it up.
hunter8 wrote: I somehow tend to attract virgins or maybe there are too many of them in Cambodia or maybe they wanted me to believe they are original. And when i carefully inquired into prospects of having some fun, they always told me it’s only after marriage, at which point i defaulted back to bar girls.
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I met a Western man in the past, who told me his girlfriend was a prostitute. She would come and stay with him for a while. Then she would go off to meet other men, and earn some money. Later she would come and stay with him again.
He made that choice, and was happy with that choice. But he did not expect to be with her until old age.
It is much better to be honest about it, than to live in fantasy land.
He made that choice, and was happy with that choice. But he did not expect to be with her until old age.
It is much better to be honest about it, than to live in fantasy land.
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I prefer to be honest about it ,,,, and live in a fantasy land , cause the riel world ain't looking to good at the moment.explorer wrote: ↑Tue Jul 07, 2020 8:43 am I met a Western man in the past, who told me his girlfriend was a prostitute. She would come and stay with him for a while. Then she would go off to meet other men, and earn some money. Later she would come and stay with him again.
He made that choice, and was happy with that choice. But he did not expect to be with her until old age.
It is much better to be honest about it, than to live in fantasy land.
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
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I would love to live in a simple one dimensional world with only young and old men and good and bad girls.
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newkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:32 amBride price is part of the usual Cambodian tradition.Kohker wrote:I was referring to westerners.
No it's not
Khmer mostly follow them.
No they don't
If you have learned about Cambodian traditions from the daughter of a rice farmer you have simply learned how the lower classes behave, it doesn't give you a true picture of the country.
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If there is something we don't know, please share. So we can learn.
When you quote someone, put your comments after the /quote.
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Kohker wrote: ↑Tue Jul 07, 2020 10:40 amnewkidontheblock wrote: ↑Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:32 amBride price is part of the usual Cambodian tradition.Kohker wrote:I was referring to westerners.
No it's not
Khmer mostly follow them.
No they don't
If you have learned about Cambodian traditions from the daughter of a rice farmer you have simply learned how the lower classes behave, it doesn't give you a true picture of the country.
Just out of curiosity, what is your source that most Cambodians don’t follow the practice of bride-price. Doesn’t match what I know.
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I'm simply saying my experiences with upper middle class Cambodians is a world away from the low class types you guys seem to be familiar with.
I am obviously in the minority here but all my wives family are professionals in various fields and all speak English or French or both,I can't imagine the loss of face if they tired to get money from me? They would be shunned from the family!!.
I am obviously in the minority here but all my wives family are professionals in various fields and all speak English or French or both,I can't imagine the loss of face if they tired to get money from me? They would be shunned from the family!!.
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There isn't one set way of going about getting married in Cambodia not one set "culture".
My wives uncle a doctor married the daughter of an okhna the okhna paid for the whole wedding in the sofitel.
another cousin also a doctor married another doctor and grooms parents also doctors paid for the wedding.
My wives uncle a doctor married the daughter of an okhna the okhna paid for the whole wedding in the sofitel.
another cousin also a doctor married another doctor and grooms parents also doctors paid for the wedding.
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