How many is too many?

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Re: How many is too many?

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Who really cares what a girl think or want ?!

or maybe it's me :-)
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Re: How many is too many?

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jubo2 wrote: Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:48 am Who really cares what a girl think or want ?!

or maybe it's me :-)
It's you :hattip:
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Re: How many is too many?

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NKOTB, not meaning to slash off your wife, but having raised a kid with a Cambodian mother for eight years now it's (becoming increasingly) difficult because our views on parenting are quite different.

Add some 'drama queen' behavior into that mix and it might just explode in your face
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Re: How many is too many?

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jubo2 wrote: Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:48 am Who really cares what a girl think or want ?!

or maybe it's me :-)
I totally agree. I don't care what she thinks. She's there to please me.
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Re: How many is too many?

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This is all rather medieval, when I was growing up we fucked around a lot. Asking how many partners someone has had is possessive and jealous behavior. A woman who has had a large number of partners does not equate to a taxi girl, nor a man to a playboy. Pathetic emotional immaturity on display here.
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Re: How many is too many?

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^^well said


My entire life I don't think I've ever asked a partner of mine, how many guys she's been with......that's something that has never occurred to me to even be curious about.........quite bizarre newkid.
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Re: How many is too many?

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This post is so slut-shaming and chauvinistic.

If your partner is being true to you, what does it matter who they have been with before?

I hate that sort of jealousy, it’s so destructive.
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Re: How many is too many?

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John Bingham wrote: Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:16 am This is all rather medieval, when I was growing up we fucked around a lot. Asking how many partners someone has had is possessive and jealous behavior. A woman who has had a large number of partners does not equate to a taxi girl, nor a man to a playboy. Pathetic emotional immaturity on display here.
The usual pathetic emotional immaturity on display here. The guy seems a bit obsessed about regularly portraying or putting his wife and his relationship on some kind of virtuous pedestal above everyone else. Weird to say the least.
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Re: How many is too many?

Post by rozzieoz »

Mrs NKOTB has low self esteem, I feel so sorry for her. :(
She didn’t want to go to Oscar’s because she was scared people would think she was a hooker.

Someone with self confidence wouldn’t have even thought that. She would have just stepped out looking gorgeous and enjoyed a fabulous night.

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Re: How many is too many?

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rozzieoz wrote: Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:39 am Mrs NKOTB has low self esteem, I feel so sorry for her. :(
She didn’t want to go to Oscar’s because she was scared people would think she was a hooker.
Well, to be fair to her, she comes from a culture where maintaining 'face' and 'what people think of you' is given a premium, the likes of which we don't usually see to the same extent in the west.
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