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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by UTDTID » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:11 pm

fax wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:46 am
atst wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 5:56 am
Take time off work Go to a bar get a girl
Are schools in Cambodia okay with giving extra holidays on short notice so their teachers can solve their girl problems with other girl problems?

Yes boss I must go to street 104 to shag a short-timer to restore my reputation
If Carling hired teachers.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Cam Nivag » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:14 pm

TWY wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 9:24 am

The entire thing should have been handled the first time she "came by". But it wasn't. And its obvious from the OP posts that he lacks either the experience or the ability to handle the situation.
Please tell us how you would have "handled" it.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by clutchcargo » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:35 pm

fax wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:46 am
atst wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 5:56 am
Take time off work Go to a bar get a girl
Are schools in Cambodia okay with giving extra holidays on short notice so their teachers can solve their girl problems with other girl problems?

Yes boss I must go to street 104 to shag a short-timer to restore my reputation.
Restore or sully as the case may be...me now no longer 1 woman man..me butterfly :color

But if being a playboy achieves the desired result.. aka stalker ex gives up.. then trading reputation for freedom seems entirely reasonable methinks :chin: :mrgreen:
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Kuroneko » Fri Mar 15, 2019 1:22 pm

slimshady wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:21 am
RickyBobby wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:18 am
OP, can you go elsewhere and get a job? Vietnam is good apparently, and so is Maynmar.
She is half Vietnamese, no thanks.
That explains it, she is not a relative of Võ Thị Mô by any chance! :shock: :plus1:

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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by TWY » Fri Mar 15, 2019 2:11 pm

Cam Nivag wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:14 pm
TWY wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 9:24 am

The entire thing should have been handled the first time she "came by". But it wasn't. And its obvious from the OP posts that he lacks either the experience or the ability to handle the situation.
Please tell us how you would have "handled" it.
For starters I wouldn't have made promises to get her to have sex. That said, and as I previously posted, some straight forward humor would have likely diffused the situation at work and more importantly wouldn't have shown weakness/fear. The guy is letting her tear off his shirts in public and beat him with shoes? He's acting like she might have a point. And he is certainly inviting more of the same.

At this point, he needs to leave. While its likely that eventually she'll find someone else to make miserable, there is a chance of a really bad outcome. No reason to be risking that in Cambodia.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by Cam Nivag » Fri Mar 15, 2019 2:21 pm

TWY wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 2:11 pm
That said, and as I previously posted, some straight forward humor would have likely diffused the situation at work
Crazed stalker turns up at work and he should have told her knock knock jokes?
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by RickyBobby » Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:58 pm

Cam Nivag wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:14 pm
TWY wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 9:24 am

The entire thing should have been handled the first time she "came by". But it wasn't. And its obvious from the OP posts that he lacks either the experience or the ability to handle the situation.
Please tell us how you would have "handled" it.
You do ask good Q's CN, but I also noticed that you never answer any that people ask you.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by atst » Fri Mar 15, 2019 8:10 pm

fax wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 6:46 am
atst wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 5:56 am
Take time off work Go to a bar get a girl
Are schools in Cambodia okay with giving extra holidays on short notice so their teachers can solve their girl problems with other girl problems?

Yes boss I must go to street 104 to shag a short-timer to restore my reputation
What a shallow reply on what I suggested. It was nothing about getting a shag it was showing the girl he had another girlfriend and she was not part of his life anymore ,why would he tell his boss he wanted time of to shag whores , please don't bother replying to this it's pointless
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by fax » Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:25 pm

atst wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 8:10 pm
why would he tell his boss he wanted time of to shag whores
That's what I'm wondering too. Why would you suggest it?

Do you find yourself often taking time off work to go to bars and find girls? What sort of girl do you use to make girls jealous? Please share your expertise.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by atst » Sat Mar 16, 2019 5:18 am

Only a suggestion he could find another girl anywhere
But to answer your questions I'm retired but never had to give my employer explanation of my holidays activities
As for type of girl one , female preferred
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