Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:39 pm

I got locked out of my account and can't get back in, I am the OP. Things have heated up a little. She has come by my job again, but this time they just told her to leave. Her message to my school is that she will find me wherever I am in Cambodia. This past Saturday she waited for me as I left the synagogue. Her sister, her and about 15 neighbors were also waiting and watching. They don't like her when she comes around, and they know all about what she has been doing. She proceeded to attack me, rip both of my shirts, took off her shoe and was hitting me with it. It really took a lot not to hit her, and if I was back home I would have done it and been justified. My hotel was around the corner so she followed me and now is talking shit to the hotel manager. Now the hotel wants to kick me out. I won't bore you with details about that.

The new development is that she wants $5000 for her 'investment' in the relationship. Still not sure what to do about this, but someone suggested I pay her or leave Cambodia.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by frank lee bent » Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:46 pm

i have heard of girls successfully extorting men this way. usually they will have a police accomplice.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by TWY » Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:54 pm

OP,
I don't want to be rude to you. You need to pack up and leave. If you can't handle this situation, then your in for a long haul here in Cambodia. Return home.

Only you and her know what took place originally. At this point it doesn't matter.

If you do pay her, I'm sending several of my wife's friends over next! :dragonchase:
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:03 am

frank lee bent wrote:
Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:46 pm
i have heard of girls successfully extorting men this way. usually they will have a police accomplice.
Yes, I heard she had the police with her on the last visit. I don't plan to pay her anything.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:03 am

TWY wrote:
Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:54 pm
OP,
I don't want to be rude to you. You need to pack up and leave. If you can't handle this situation, then your in for a long haul here in Cambodia. Return home.

Only you and her know what took place originally. At this point it doesn't matter.

If you do pay her, I'm sending several of my wife's friends over next! :dragonchase:
Home? I am in my home right now.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:08 am

TWY wrote:
Thu Mar 14, 2019 11:54 pm
OP,
I don't want to be rude to you. You need to pack up and leave. If you can't handle this situation, then your in for a long haul here in Cambodia. Return home.

Only you and her know what took place originally. At this point it doesn't matter.

If you do pay her, I'm sending several of my wife's friends over next! :dragonchase:
What the fuck does that mean? Handle the situation, I am handling it the best way I know how. If I couldn't handle it I would have left already.

"Return Home" Maybe I will start a sub-reddit called "Stupid Shit Ex-Pats Say", can't you be more original. The only reason I am posting this is to have some sort of record if needed. Arguing with anyone on CEO or an expatty in general is like fighting to get on the short bus first.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by RickyBobby » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:18 am

OP, can you go elsewhere and get a job? Vietnam is good apparently, and so is Maynmar. What are your roots in Cambodia? GTFO and dont come back. The country is too small, and I would never give into the extortion.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:21 am

RickyBobby wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:18 am
OP, can you go elsewhere and get a job? Vietnam is good apparently, and so is Maynmar.
She is half Vietnamese, no thanks.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by slimshady » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:23 am

RickyBobby wrote:
Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:18 am
I would never give into the extortion.
Neither would I, but what's the worst that could happen, she puts a hit on me? When it's time, it's time.
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Re: Stalker ex-girlfriend (Help)

Post by frank lee bent » Fri Mar 15, 2019 12:26 am

Yes, I heard she had the police with her on the last visit. I don't plan to pay her anything.
they will plant some dope on you and lock you up. bank on it.
you better leave Cambodia for a while.
if you paid, it would just be a first installment.
someone is informing her of your location.
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