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Article: Meeting a Dildo Dealer in Cambodia, Where Sex Toys Are Illegal

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This article in today's VICE was in fact first published in 2015, but may still be of interest. Apologies to those who have already read it.

Dec 26 2018, 9:00am
Meeting a Dildo Dealer in Cambodia, Where Sex Toys Are Illegal
It's not easy to find a strap-on or a vibrator if you live in the home of the Angkor Wat, so you have to get creative.

My fake girlfriend and I were waiting to survey illegal dildos. There was a high-powered vroom and our dealer arrived on a muscular superbike. He hopped off, clutching a black bag to his slender chest. If I had to guess his sexuality, I would have said gay. "Hella gay," agreed my fake girlfriend, Eve.

Eve had arranged the meet because I had spooked him with phone calls requesting an official interview. So we were undercover. Inside her house, the dealer withdrew a couple of dildos and looked down each shaft as if checking a pool cue, then he cocked a couple of vibrators and laid them out on the table next to the strap-ons.

He was right to be cautious. In Cambodia, selling sex toys is punishable with a fine or jail time. In 2011, the Phnom Penh Post reported that police raided a traditional Chinese medicine shop, seizing 10 dildos and a number of medicines thought to improve sexual performance.

There is no law explicitly banning sex toys but, in this case, Phnom Penh Municipal Court Judge, Kor Vandy found the defendants in violation of a law against human trafficking "which prohibits the display, possession, import, export and sale of pornography," according to the report.

"That's a normal ruling," said Sam Onn Kong, the president of Cambodia Law Services. Dildo pushers can also be prosecuted under another law that forbids anything that disturbs the good culture of Cambodia. "We are very proud of our culture," he explained. "So if there is no law, then we can look to Cambodian culture and appraise whether or not selling sex toys violates [our customs]."

Still, it wasn't hard to find a source in the amiably chaotic capital of Phnom Penh. We just searched online. Back at Eve's house, the dealer refused to give us his name or allow photographs. The toys had apparently been bought in Hong Kong.

"Don't worry about the police," he said, as Eve's housemate arrived, looked slowly at the array, shook his head, and went straight into his room. "It's OK because I have sold them for three years; the police know me and if they know you bought it from me they won't arrest you."

I examined an unnervingly realistic and veiny dildo named, "American Boy Dong." Considering the dealer's pricey ride, and his regular trips to Hong Kong (something the overwhelming majority of Cambodians could never afford), it was likely he was a member of the wealthy elite.

Not true, according to the Cambodian government. "We don't tolerate that kind of thing," said Phay Siphan, a spokesperson for the Council of Ministers. "It's illegal to sell pornography and sex toys, and if we find out who he is we will pick him up right away." Still though, three years operating with impunity isn't a bad track record.

Apart from elite families and their wayward, dildo-swinging offspring, there is another way to get hold of sex toys in Cambodia: The lesbian underground. Homosexuality is legal in Cambodia, though same-sex marriage is still outlawed. It was a world I partially accessed while dating a bisexual girl with a penchant for pegging. For those who don't know, "pegging" is when a girl puts on a strap-on and fucks a guy's ass. She raised the pegging flag a couple of months into our relationship. I shrugged: Sure, why not?

She had a contact in the US Embassy who had a secure Army Post Office box (APO) beyond the control of local officials. It wasn't the first time quality, non-toxic sex toys had landed in this special box, to be distributed among expat lesbians and femme bisexuals with overly-accommodating boyfriends.

"It was the only way I knew how to get one," Cindy, a lesbian and former Phnom Penh resident, told me. She wanted to be identified by first name only. "I thought it would be safer to mail it through [the source's] APO since you hear these stories of people getting their mail raided." The embassy contact did not respond to repeated requests for comment.

Cambodian lesbians, on the other hand, almost never use sex toys. Perhaps this is why the law has never been clarified. If there was a local demand, then lawmakers might resolve the issue before local businesses started stuffing the gap in the market with plastic cocks and vibrating eggs.

"I'm for sex education, premarital sex and sex toys," Dany Vinh, a Cambodian LGBTQ activist, told Broadly. "But Cambodia isn't at that stage yet; I'm an outlier and my view doesn't reflect the majority of Cambodian LGBTQ people." Another local lesbian who only wanted to be identified as Tomboy said she had never heard of anyone using sex toys.
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