Love or SeX
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Chariya I am well aware of Khmer customs; I've lived here many years, live in the countryside married to a Khmer and we have two children. I personally am opposed to arranged marriages and will give my daughter total freedom to choose. As forCambodians it is up to them to make up their own minds. Only Khmer can choose the direction they want to go.
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where abouts do you live mate? do you live in your wifes village?asp wrote:Chariya I am well aware of Khmer customs; I've lived here many years, live in the countryside married to a Khmer and we have two children. I personally am opposed to arranged marriages and will give my daughter total freedom to choose. As forCambodians it is up to them to make up their own minds. Only Khmer can choose the direction they want to go.
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?where abouts do you live mate? do you live in your wifes village?"
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What province?asp wrote:?where abouts do you live mate? do you live in your wifes village?"
Yep
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Sorry, I prefer to maintain total anonymity
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no bother, was just interested in seeing what other provinces people have settled inasp wrote:Sorry, I prefer to maintain total anonymity
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Re: RE: Re: Love or SeX
Good explanation.asp wrote:For Lil Salary who wrote, *I believe that love can't force. Never force us to love someone and never force someone to love us. Love is scary, it makes us feel too weak."
I don't know where the idea of "forceful love" comes from, but I agree. To fall in love is to have a companion,lover,helpmate or whatever combination of psychological needs we deem necessary to be fulfilled and to be successful it must be reciprocal. It is mutual giving and receiving that approaches the miraculous if successful. In short the idea that love can force us into a relationship is absurd. Falling in love isn't about taking prisoners.I would reject anyone who would allow themselves to submit to unreasonable demands or any other psychological tyranny on my part just as I would flee those who would want
to act likewise with me.
Now as for love being scary there's doubtlessly some insecurity. After all you have trusted one person with your feelings. Experience is the best teacher and that's one reason I'm opposed to arranged marriages.
So no, love with a well chosen partner doesn't weaken us, it strengthens us in the knowledge that when we are wrong we have chosen a person both strong enough to tell ue and stronger yet to not leave us. Falling in love is a bit scary Lil Salary, but it's the best adventure you can have. But you've got to have some adventure in your own soul to begin with.
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