Sexpat Stereotype takes toll on daughters and fathers

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Re: Sexpat Stereotype takes toll on daughters and fathers

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Barang_doa_slae wrote:Message edited while you wrote yours
Well I'm sure you have spoken to Phon now and now delete all references to my dad.

Thank you.
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Just spoke with Phon.
He told me you were only interested in knowing who I am and never asked him if your father owed him any money !
So either him or you are lying. Since I know Phon for 20 years and he never lied to me for anything important yet, i must assume it is you.
Edited: at my request mods deleted the posts that were disturbing you.
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Phon made it very clear when I spoke to him. I'm done with this. Remove the comments.
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As I already said I can't neither edit or delete the very first post and contacted the site admin about it.
I might as well submit to your request and delete all the posts when I can since you talked to Phon and these posts won't achieve more.
You need to understand that phon's is in great need of money these days and the amount owed to him would help him a lot.
I never stated and I think I should, that I have no financial interest in this at all.
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PMs are there for a reason. Privacy is one.
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^^ Messaging being the other, right?
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@Doodles,

Honest and non-hostile question: Did you ever ask your father if he owed a considerable sum of money? Just curious. I mean, everyone gets your disposition (a good daughter would do just what you did). But if you haven't yet, pose the question to your dad.

Peace.
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so is the money owed or not?
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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Anchor Moy wrote:
Bhodi wrote:Pardon my ignorance but how much of this is reality versus hysteria? And also do you have any advice on what to do when approached by kids on the street frankly I'm scared shitless at this point all I can think to do is to run away from them because it really scares me.
That sounds like a good plan - running away I mean. Those street kids are scary.

I'm only half-kidding. I presume you mean the kids who want to sell you something ? Don't quite get what you are asking. What are you afraid of ?

Expats who have kids, or their partner's kids, or Khmer friends with kids, are the ones who suffer from the sexpat stereotype because they are foreigners hanging out with Khmer kids. AFAIK you will not be arrested for talking to street kids.
Don't take any home with you, but that should be a no-brainer.
I should have been a bit more clear I guess what I'm really afraid of is overzealous APL advocates thinking they're seeing something that doesn't exist.
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phuketrichard wrote:ONE important thing;
a true pedophile does not CHOOSE to be one, ( nor does he necessarily enjoy/like it in the traditional sense of enjoyment), it is a disorder of sexual preference.
Some adults have pedophilic feelings but do not act by sexually abusing children. Some adults who are not pedophiles commit sexual abuse against children.

Do some more research Samouth

OK question
is a 17 year old boy having sex with a 16 year old girl a Pedophile?
I would say NO>

NOW that we have settled that?

Read " Off the rails in Phnom Penh" written by Amit Gilboa
a good description of what PP was like in the late 90's

If ur shocked by SP in the late 1990's how do u feel about rich aisans wanting sex with underage virgins?
that must really push ur buttons

Bhodi;
just dont take one home with you and offer her/he a shower to clean up
NOR allow a bar girl to bring her "little sister " to ur room
this is a big set up scam in PI although have not heard of it happening to much in Thailand or Cambodia
I would never allow a child in my room for any reason thanks for the heads up on the scam. I've heard of another scam where willing guesthouse operators Will let criminals into your room with a child and wait for you to come home then they will take a picture before you realize what's going on and then the blackmail begins. On my last trip Three little girls approached me asking for my water bottle I gave them a few bucks instead and all three of them hugged me that scared the shit out of me not the children I mean but in my head I was scared of overzealous APL people thinking I was a creep.
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