Jamie_Lambo wrote:me, its highly likely that the vast majority of times i have sex with a new conquest that theres a good chance im intoxicated, and more often than not so is the other party, is this rape, no, if they were unconscious or close to it then yes, drunk, then no, if they were drunk and consented then after regretted it and think they would never have done it sober, is this rape, no, its her own fault for getting that drunk, theres a difference between rape and regret, even if youve been so drunk that you cant remember if you had sex or not***, thats not rape, someone forcing someone to have sex is rape, no ones forcing you to drink yourself into a state where you dont know what youre doing (unless spiked drinks are involved then thats different)

***[edit] im talking about if 2 people are out drinking together or met in a club or something, not some guy going round hunting down drunk women on their way home from a night out, as it sounds depending how you read it lol just thought id point that out