Just the normal BS.

Met a girl, fell in love, married, had kids, ended up with her being a lying cheating whore with multiple boyfriends, going through divorce now.

Not easy when kids are involved but a good life lesson i guess.

Can at least tick off being married and divorced before I'm 40!! lets she how many wives i can get between now and then.

phuketrichard wrote:been there, done that.......
got a lovely daughter out of it

I got 2 lovely daughters out of it.

Duncan wrote:Like most others out there I also have a good story to tell, and like most others out there, I'm too embarrassed to tell it. So let's say , I was soo happy at the beginning and was even more happy at the end, and you can fill in all the nitty gritty details of money, sex, lies and
treachery yourself.

Yes, but what about your "friend" ? I bet he has a good story to tell.

kiwiincambodia wrote:Just the normal BS.

Met a girl, fell in love, married, had kids, ended up with her being a lying cheating whore with multiple boyfriends, going through divorce now.

Not easy when kids are involved but a good life lesson i guess.

Can at least tick off being married and divorced before I'm 40!! lets she how many wives i can get between now and then.

Sorry to hear that KIC, at least you can be consoled by the fact your not the only one. Probably around 6 million by now and counting...

A story in pictures...

Mines probably on the weird side... (ill try keep it brief)

Id been traveling around exploring Thailand and Laos for the previous 3 months and i finally hit Cambodia,
we was in Siem Reap and went out on a bender, we was on it all day visiting various bars and KTVs, ended up in Hip Hop where i pulled some hot chick,
took her back and she ended up spending the next 5 days with me, never asked for a penny off me, i was waiting for the catch but there wasnt one, id never dated an asian chick and only knew the "stereotypes", i told her i was heading down to SHV and that it was time to say goodbye, but she said she would fly down and meet me down there... whilst i was getting a bus with smelly backpackers... but hey i went along with it,
she was already checked into a hotel by the time i arrived so i just crashed at her hotel, then things started to get weird, she started giving me $100 a night to "get the drinks in" and this went on for the next few weeks, i kept trying to figure out where all this money was coming from, she was insistent that she owned a market stall in SR, i never really bought it, and half the reason i think we ended up staying together for so long was because i was playing detective trying to catch this girl out, but she was good, she even went through the effort of "borrowing" her friends (closed) market stall to "prove" to me that she had one...
but im not stupid and i know when people are lying, like a 6th sense, i found the relationship tiring yet strangely entertaining, (there was other reasons why i stuck around but i wont get into that) and also it wasnt costing me any money, because she seemed to have this never ending flow of money, and was insistent on paying for the majority of our meals and drinks, it was if she kind of got some kind of ego kick out of it...

anyway i planned to pop back to england for 2 months to see family, and before i left i set up a skype account for her, whilst back in england and not too long before i was scheduled to come back, she tells me some guy had added her on skype, so i checked it out and it was some old guy from australia, i wont get into too many details as its possible some people might know this guy, but he had been sponsoring her for quite some time and thats where her money was coming from...

cut a long story short he fucked her off, i fucked her off, and she ended up back on the game...

So far this thread seems to be a litany of "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places."

Now, if you fellows had taught the 6pm - 7pm English Conversation class at [school] in [town] and met a divorced 34-year-old bookkeeper
working for [company] and then you had ended up owning property together, none of these sad tales would have enlivened, or marred, your lives.

The worst moment was one some of you will recognize; the beloved one said she'd been offered a block of land at [place] at a sweetheart
price - $1,500 - and I mentioned this to an embittered and cynical colleague at [another place] where I was then working and he, unhesitatingly,
guffawed and said that this was merely a variant on the old "my family buffalo is sick" scam but, anyway, the money was found, the land was
bought, eventually fenced, added to (a neighboring block of land) in due course and is now covered in young fruit trees.

My ashes will probably be scattered there, beneath Phnom Kulen - not Ben Bulben's Head.

Life is always a roll of the dice.

If you meet them in a "hostess bar" (honest guv, she's not a hooker, she just sucks cock for cash, but she's choosy about it, except when the crystal meth runs out) then you can be reasonably certain that it's not going to end well (not 100% - I know some people it seems to have worked for - but 99.99999% sure).

This becomes exponentially more true the longer she has sucked cock for cash. Get her in the first couple of weeks... you might find someone who will reform. Get her after the first couple of months... you are dating a hooker and don't be surprised when that is what she remains to the end of her days.

A mate of mine, a retired English guy in PP, married one of the "over the hill hos" from Candy Bar. She stole everything he owned and bled him dry. Have no idea what he did it for; he could have rented someone attractive (at the going rate) for about 10 years for what she stole in 6 months.

If you want a good relationship in Asia; you either need to date a "hi so" lass - and she's likely to be an older divorcee because you ain't no catch to that kind of girl - who speaks English well. Or you need to learn the local language well and find yourself a village/city sweetheart.