'Is a woman's value measured by virginity?' asks Cambodian vlogger

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considering her family will be demanding a higher "Thlai Dtuk Doh" if she is still "Prum Charey" when she gets married, as JB said, the answer is a simple "Yes"
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Marriage day is certainly a big payday to the brides family.
Always "hope" but never "expect".
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"I knew her before she was a virgin". So said Jonney Rotten about Hazel O connor.

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Jamie_Lambo wrote:considering her family will be demanding a higher "Thlai Dtuk Doh" if she is still "Prum Charey" when she gets married, as JB said, the answer is a simple "Yes"
Not entirely true anymore. For many families in the city, it's now more a matter of the size of the wedding being planned rather than whether or not she's a virgin (which they're often unaware of anyways).
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The larger the wedding, the more little envelopes.
Always "hope" but never "expect".
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Just on the envelope thing, how much is the normal for
a) someone you only know but not a friend?
b) friend of other half
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"Thlai Dtuk Doh" if she is still "Prum Charey" when she gets married,
how would mom ( and especially dad) know she is or isn't?? thought virgin brides went out decades ago. :beer3:

i have always been led to believe the envelopes go her parents to help defray the costs they spent for the ceremony
Usually the parents really dont "make" much if any.

$20 is plenty
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