General Mackevili wrote:

StroppyChops wrote:

General Mackevili wrote:She's cute.

It's the Japanese eyes.

LoL. This is probably my favorite Japanese "actress" in the adult entertainment industry:

Spoiler:

Money shot!

MekongMouse wrote:I'm with Samouth on this. What's the problem? He didn't hit her and he wants his dowry back because she's a cheater. I hope he gets it.

Not really a "problem", per se. I would hope he gets his dowry back too, but if allegations of infidelity are newsworthy and photos of an accused philanderer made public, then y'all better not live in glass houses. Allegations of your private indiscretions may be deemed thread-worthy by someone. And when NOT beating a woman is praised as exceptional male restraint, that it's a sad commentary.

Soi Dog wrote:

MekongMouse wrote:I'm with Samouth on this. What's the problem? He didn't hit her and he wants his dowry back because she's a cheater. I hope he gets it.

Not really a "problem", per se. I would hope he gets his dowry back too, but if allegations of infidelity are newsworthy and photos of an accused philanderer made public, then y'all better not live in glass houses. Allegations of your private indiscretions may be deemed thread-worthy by someone. And when NOT beating a woman is praised as exceptional male restraint, that it's a sad commentary.

It is a sad commentary, but this is Cambodia. How often do you read about a story like this that doesn't end with the man going batshit crazy and hurting someone? The fact that he didn't hit her and showed restraint shouldn't be news, but it is is. I'm with you on the photo and public shaming though, there's no need for that.

General Mackevili wrote:

StroppyChops wrote:

General Mackevili wrote:She's cute.

It's the Japanese eyes.

LoL. This is probably my favorite Japanese "actress" in the adult entertainment industry:

Spoiler:

I clicked on that spoiler about 20 times and got nothing. Are you pulling my pisser.

This cultural form of slavery will disappear once women receive more education and have both a personal and economic value that transcends housewife drudgery and farming. This cultural value of no sex before marriage, applied to women only of course, has outlived its feudal usefulness. This is just another reason why I want my daughter to study overseas where she can explore not only her intellectual skills, but her sexuality and emotional needs as well.

As for reporting this incident to the police, who will undoubtedly receive a cut of the dowry, he could have just as easily have reported the incident to his mother who could have approached the mother of the girl and demanded the money back. That is the same dynamic for the proposal. In any case, the girl has lost her good reputation in that village as well as that of her family.

For Samouth I can only say that all cultures change and there is temporary pain in seeing that which you held sacred being destroyed. But you cannot have real democracy until all people are free and that includes the right of a woman to live her life as she pleases. And please don't blame Western culture for this behavior. You cannot freeze your culture and keep it static forever. It must by nature be dynamic and women have an equal right to participate freely in it. On their terms.

I can't find anyone gentle in this story, both fiance and boyfriend. If there weren't the name on the picture, I would share some idea,but it's Not my business.

prahkeitouj wrote:I can't find anyone gentle in this story, both fiance and boyfriend. If there weren't the name on the picture, I would share some idea,but it's Not my business.

Sadly the picture comes with name and also her age.

MekongMouse wrote:It is a sad commentary, but this is Cambodia. How often do you read about a story like this that doesn't end with the man going batshit crazy and hurting someone?

So what? Do you applaud rape in Nigeria because hey, at least he didn't kill someone! Yeah it's wrong but this is Nigeria, what a great guy!

Let's call a spade a spade. It's horrible to physically hurt people whether you're married to them or not. This guy didn't, cool, neither did a lot of the rest of us.

And please, spare me the racist "he's Cambodian so he gets a free pass" mentality.