Is this ethical?

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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by hunter8 » Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:47 pm

Phnom Poon wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:30 pm
hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:27 pm
Phnom Poon wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:25 pm
seems self-evident to me
In the ideal dream world.
i think you're in the dream, if you think suspicion and distrust are the way to a healthy relationship
When you drive a car you should check if your breaks are good. It’s a standard safety procedure. Why should relationships be different?

For me, a healthy one would be not taking it too seriously. If man has this set of mind, there is no place for much suspicion. There is always a new pussy around the corner waiting.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by hunter8 » Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:51 pm

GMJS-CEO wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:39 pm
My wife wouldn't even let me pay for her Tuk Tuks.
How did you feel about it?

My idea is if the woman doesn’t let man pay for her meal or taxi and such, she is too independent, not a wife material.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by Kung-fu Hillbilly » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:02 pm

hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:51 pm
GMJS-CEO wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:39 pm
My wife wouldn't even let me pay for her Tuk Tuks.
How did you feel about it?

My idea is if the woman doesn’t let man pay for her meal or taxi and such, she is too independent, not a wife material.
And there it is. If she's not an obedient subservient I can keep confined to my walls and my will, she's not for me.

Sadly, Cambodia attracts many men with a similar attitude.
The idea that seeing the world is going from place to place to look at obvious things is an illusion natural to dull minds.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by hunter8 » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:07 pm

Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:02 pm
hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:51 pm
GMJS-CEO wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:39 pm
My wife wouldn't even let me pay for her Tuk Tuks.
How did you feel about it?

My idea is if the woman doesn’t let man pay for her meal or taxi and such, she is too independent, not a wife material.
And there it is. If she's not an obedient subservient I can keep confined to my walls and my will, she's not for me.

Sadly, Cambodia attracts many men with a similar attitude.
Why sadly?
Men who like independent women, most of them choose to stay in the western world.
Men who do not like western feminism escape to this part of the world where most local women are happy to have their meals paid for. What is the nature of your sadness?
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by Kung-fu Hillbilly » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:13 pm

hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:07 pm
Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:02 pm
hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:51 pm
GMJS-CEO wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:39 pm
My wife wouldn't even let me pay for her Tuk Tuks.
How did you feel about it?

My idea is if the woman doesn’t let man pay for her meal or taxi and such, she is too independent, not a wife material.
And there it is. If she's not an obedient subservient I can keep confined to my walls and my will, she's not for me.

Sadly, Cambodia attracts many men with a similar attitude.
Why sadly?
Men who like independent women, most of them choose to stay in the western world.
Men who do not like western feminism escape to this part of the world where most local women are happy to have their meals paid for. What is the nature of your sadness?
My sadness lay with men who are threatened by gender equality as I've found they share a few commonalities or certain character traits that aren't overly endearing - particularly some of the ones who wash up on SEA shores.

Past my bed time.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by hunter8 » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:16 pm

Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:13 pm
My sadness lay with men who are threatened by gender equality
In other words, all Asian men, about 2 billion of them. Gender equality is a western invention of recently. 50 years from now most people on the planet will be Asians. Gender equality will not be a thing again, like thousands of years before.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by Kung-fu Hillbilly » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:19 pm

hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:16 pm
Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:13 pm
My sadness lay with men who are threatened by gender equality
In other words, all Asian men, about 2 billion of them. Gender equality is a western invention. 50 years from now most people on the planet will be Asians. Gender equality will not be a thing.
Ok. Goodnight.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by BrazilBoy » Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:44 pm

Trying to find a woman who isn't concerned about a man's ability to provide for her and potentially for their kids is just just wrong headed. Women are designed to extract resources and they probably have an idea in mind as to just how much they need to extract. If you date a high maintenence woman and then suddenly make her feel like a low rent bitch, why wouldn't she leave?
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by GMJS-CEO » Sat Nov 23, 2019 12:01 am

hunter8 wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:51 pm
GMJS-CEO wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 10:39 pm
My wife wouldn't even let me pay for her Tuk Tuks.
How did you feel about it?

My idea is if the woman doesn’t let man pay for her meal or taxi and such, she is too independent, not a wife material.
Considering the rest of my post and the topic at hand it should be obvious I admire the financial independence.
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Re: Is this ethical?

Post by GMJS-CEO » Sat Nov 23, 2019 12:04 am

BrazilBoy wrote:
Fri Nov 22, 2019 11:44 pm
Trying to find a woman who isn't concerned about a man's ability to provide for her and potentially for their kids is just just wrong headed. Women are designed to extract resources and they probably have an idea in mind as to just how much they need to extract. If you date a high maintenence woman and then suddenly make her feel like a low rent bitch, why wouldn't she leave?
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