The ties that blind
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Re: The ties that blind
Hello. I almost said hi, but I have a problem with your name.
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Older sister 1- The rock and in contact once a week/fortnight.
Older sister 2 - Manic depressive schizophrenic I see once a year when home. I can be a trigger for her.
Mother dead. Never caring and believed it her children's duty to serve her wants without question. Racist, self absorbed and controlling, she made all of our lives difficult.
Father. Never involved, silent, distant. Sat in the chair reading the newspaper or watched TV. Uninterested, but paid the bills.
TheRapisT. Really? TheRapist?
Older sister 2 - Manic depressive schizophrenic I see once a year when home. I can be a trigger for her.
Mother dead. Never caring and believed it her children's duty to serve her wants without question. Racist, self absorbed and controlling, she made all of our lives difficult.
Father. Never involved, silent, distant. Sat in the chair reading the newspaper or watched TV. Uninterested, but paid the bills.
TheRapisT. Really? TheRapist?
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I originally tried "Mongoloidal Schadenfreude" but it was rejected for being too long. Then I watched the SNL skit where Sean Connery was on jeopardy and read the category "therapists" as "the rapists."Anchor Moy wrote:Hello. I almost said hi, but I have a problem with your name.
I laugh at that skit everytime, bit I regret the name too.
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Commiserate with you on many levels Mr. KFH,Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:Older sister 1- The rock and in contact once a week/fortnight.
Older sister 2 - Manic depressive schizophrenic I see once a year when home. I can be a trigger for her.
Mother dead. Never caring and believed it her children's duty to serve her wants without question. Racist, self absorbed and controlling, she made all of our lives difficult.
Father. Never involved, silent, distant. Sat in the chair reading the newspaper or watched TV. Uninterested, but paid the bills.
TheRapisT. Really? TheRapist?
Older cousin also diagnosed with schizophrenia and the one thing my father also did was pay the bills.
AND MARY, JOSEPH AND ALL HIS CARPENTER FRIENDS DO I REGRET MY USERNAME! Did anyone see the SNL Jeopardy skit with Sean Connery reading "therapists" as "the rapists"?
...must.......change.....username......
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Although I have two sisters and a brother in NZ, I don't keep in touch with them, [ if the are still alive ]. I call my Cambodian family as my true family. I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids.
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
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You are living what I think I have been looking for in my life. Much respect Duncan.Duncan wrote:Although I have two sisters and a brother in NZ, I don't keep in touch with them, [ if the are still alive ]. I call my Cambodian family as my true family. I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids.
I vowed as a teenager that I would never have children or get a girl pregnant out of fear of becoming my father. I've been very disciplined about keeping that vow. Furthermore, the more I see of the developing world and the oceans of children without proper care--ADOPTION is a personal choice and goal of mine.
More power to you.
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I feel sad for you,Therapist wrote:You are living what I think I have been looking for in my life. Much respect Duncan.Duncan wrote:Although I have two sisters and a brother in NZ, I don't keep in touch with them, [ if the are still alive ]. I call my Cambodian family as my true family. I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids.
I vowed as a teenager that I would never have children or get a girl pregnant out of fear of becoming my father. I've been very disciplined about keeping that vow. Furthermore, the more I see of the developing world and the oceans of children without proper care--ADOPTION is a personal choice and goal of mine.
More power to you.
one of the greatest and continuous joys in my life is my daughter.
She changed my life and gives me hope for the future
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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Don't feel sad for me. You can feel jealous though. Having four girls in my family beats having only one, even if you are talking about the ''ups '' or the ''downs '' or the costs in everyday life.phuketrichard wrote:I feel sad for you,Therapist wrote:You are living what I think I have been looking for in my life. Much respect Duncan.Duncan wrote:Although I have two sisters and a brother in NZ, I don't keep in touch with them, [ if the are still alive ]. I call my Cambodian family as my true family. I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids.
I vowed as a teenager that I would never have children or get a girl pregnant out of fear of becoming my father. I've been very disciplined about keeping that vow. Furthermore, the more I see of the developing world and the oceans of children without proper care--ADOPTION is a personal choice and goal of mine.
More power to you.
one of the greatest and continuous joys in my life is my daughter.
She changed my life and gives me hope for the future
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
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not for u Duncan; - although i don't understand what you mean , "I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids"
for therapist for this statement , "out of fear of becoming my father".
for therapist for this statement , "out of fear of becoming my father".
In a nation run by swine, all pigs are upward-mobile and the rest of us are fucked until we can put our acts together: not necessarily to win, but mainly to keep from losing completely. HST
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He doesn't have his won kid, so he adapted four young Cambodian girls and regarded them as his own kid. FTFY.phuketrichard wrote:not for u Duncan; - although i don't understand what you mean , "I have never had kids of my own, so I devote all my time , money and the rest of my life to MY Cambodian kids"
for therapist for this statement , "out of fear of becoming my father".
បើសិនធ្វើចេះ ចេះឲ្យគេកោត បើសិនធ្វើឆោត ឆោតឲ្យគេអាណិត។
If you know a lot, know enough to make them respect you, if you are stupid, be stupid enough so they can pity you.
If you know a lot, know enough to make them respect you, if you are stupid, be stupid enough so they can pity you.
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