US Professor Heidi Hoefinger Examines the Idea of ‘Professional Girlfriends’ in Cambodia

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US Professor Heidi Hoefinger Examines the Idea of ‘Professional Girlfriends’ in Cambodia

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t's an interview with Heidi Hoefinger about her book. Imageopcorn:

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“Sex, Love, and Money in Cambodia: Professional Girlfriends and Transactional Relationships” looks at the social morals of Cambodian women and the idea of “transactional relationships.”

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[Editor’s note: A new book from a US professor looks at the world of “professional girlfriends,” Cambodian women who have gift-based relationships with foreign men. In her book “Sex, Love, and Money in Cambodia: Professional Girlfriends and Transactional Relationships,” Professor Heidi Hoefinger, who teaches in the Science Department of Berkeley College, in New York, looks at the intimate lives of Cambodian women and the idea of “transactional relationships.” Women are often praised for these relationships, which bring in money to support their families, but also stigmatized for breaking social codes. In an interview with VOA Khmer Hoefinger said the women are often seeking respect and recognition for their choices, something they don’t always get.]

Q: What motivated you to write this book?

A: The first time I went to Cambodia was back in 2003. I was just a.........


http://www.voacambodia.com/content/us-p ... 54958.html
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The first "gift" is always a smartphone, tablet or laptop, so he can talk her into getting naked on cam and some sexchat. If you see a "good" but poor Cambodian girl with an expensive phone, chances are she got it from a foreign man in some such relationship as Hoefinger describes.
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Right. Smartphones would be non-existent here without the white man.
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Really? Hoe-finger? I think she's taking the piss...
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Is Cambodia really much different to any other poor country that it warrants a book on it? After all, farm girls all over the LDC's are at it. Seems like she is using Cambodia's reputation as a means to sell her book.
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the book is just a spin off from her thesis surely?
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TheGrinchSR wrote:Really? Hoe-finger? I think she's taking the piss...
Wonder if Hoefinger fingered any hoes as part of her exhaustive hands on research ?
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wackyjacky wrote:
TheGrinchSR wrote:Really? Hoe-finger? I think she's taking the piss...
Wonder if Hoefinger fingered any hoes as part of her exhaustive hands on research ?
I'm glad somebody got it. :-)
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Tits Mcgee wrote:The first "gift" is always a smartphone, tablet or laptop, so he can talk her into getting naked on cam and some sexchat. If you see a "good" but poor Cambodian girl with an expensive phone, chances are she got it from a foreign man in some such relationship as Hoefinger describes.
are u fucking serious???? :facepalm:
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