It's Over
It's Over
I finalized my divorce yesterday and it was the most emotional moment in my life. Don't know how I held myself together but I think a few beers and 2 Xanax helped, lol. What a painful experience. There's something about Asian woman that, when they get a divorce from one of us Western guys, they are so cool and collective? But divorce is a big thing for me. Maybe it has something to do with that..."For better or for worse, 'til death do us part" thing. I don't know. But anyways, in 3 months I'll be heading to Cambodia and I'm hoping things work out and I can start a new life there. Just wanting you guys to know.
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Yea, I bet it's a really great feeling getting your divorce papers,,, knowing that you can now get married again to the next bargirl you meet and go through the whole procedure again.
Cambodia,,,, Don't fall in love with her.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
Like the spoilt child she is, she will not be happy till she destroys herself from within and breaks your heart.
It's Over
Wow Duncan that's a bit harsh, geez.Duncan wrote:Yea, I bet it's a really great feeling getting your divorce papers,,, knowing that you can now get married again to the next bargirl you meet and go through the whole procedure again.
Ronny, It's a grieving process like any other - you need to grieve the loss of the life you thought you'd have.
It's not easy, sending supportive thoughts <3
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Congratulations with being able to move on with your life. I'm sure you'll find plenty of women to commiserate with you on your loss in the KOW - at a small fee. Cambodia is a popular landing pad for men on the rebound and you'll no doubt find plenty of bar buddies to lament with you also.Ronny wrote: ↑Sat Jun 24, 2017 12:33 pm I finalized my divorce yesterday and it was the most emotional moment in my life. Don't know how I held myself together but I think a few beers and 2 Xanax helped, lol. What a painful experience. There's something about Asian woman that, when they get a divorce from one of us Western guys, they are so cool and collective? But divorce is a big thing for me. Maybe it has something to do with that..."For better or for worse, 'til death do us part" thing. I don't know. But anyways, in 3 months I'll be heading to Cambodia and I'm hoping things work out and I can start a new life there. Just wanting you guys to know.
Thanks for letting us know.
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Asian women its all about NOW.....not the past
went thru one divorce with a thai lady and i had the opposite feeling of u, one of relief
Move on,dont dweel on it
went thru one divorce with a thai lady and i had the opposite feeling of u, one of relief
Move on,dont dweel on it
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To repeat the whole process?Ronny wrote: ↑Sat Jun 24, 2017 12:33 pm I finalized my divorce yesterday and it was the most emotional moment in my life.
There's something about Asian woman that, when they get a divorce from one of us Western guys, they are so cool and collective?
But anyways, in 3 months I'll be heading to Cambodia and I'm hoping things work out and I can start a new life there.
Dont forget.............
Anyway, best of luck, and heres a song to cheer you up
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I escaped from a Thai many years ago and there was incredible relief.
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I've been considering marriage recently with a woman I've known for more than a decade (yes she's Asian) but struggling to control my own reality that I'm just not cut out for it.
Maybe not quite the damaging psyche of a divorce situation, but I just can't find the means to settle down.
It's not the companionship part that I am struggling with, it's more that I can't see myself staying in one place or establishing a family of my own.
The settling down aspect doesn't relate to my wandering lifestyle.
Maybe not quite the damaging psyche of a divorce situation, but I just can't find the means to settle down.
It's not the companionship part that I am struggling with, it's more that I can't see myself staying in one place or establishing a family of my own.
The settling down aspect doesn't relate to my wandering lifestyle.
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i can relate to thisjayblues wrote: ↑Sat Jun 24, 2017 1:47 pm I've been considering marriage recently with a woman I've known for more than a decade (yes she's Asian) but struggling to control my own reality that I'm just not cut out for it.
Maybe not quite the damaging psyche of a divorce situation, but I just can't find the means to settle down.
It's not the companionship part that I am struggling with, it's more that I can't see myself staying in one place or establishing a family of my own.
The settling down aspect doesn't relate to my wandering lifestyle.
seeing all my friends settled down, with houses and spouses and kids, makes me feel like i should be doing the same, as im 30 next week,
and a part of me, coming from a traditional family background, is kind of programmed to believe that i should be doing the same,
and feel like i should be settling down with a missus and have kids by now and that im lagging behind (my younger brother and sister are both married with kids) etc
but then every now and again i realised ive got so used to my freedom especially living out in Asia, that the thought of settling down would bore and suffocate the life out of me
i guess you just have to wait to, not find the girl to settle down with, but the one that will wander with you, i guess
someone was on the radio the other day talking about they were celebrating a big wedding anniversary and the presenter was asking whats the secret, and they said something about not finding the "woman of your dreams" but finding a "best friend" or something
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my song controbution to you OP
All my life I've been searching for something
Something never comes never leads to nothing
Nothing satisfies but I'm getting close
Closer to the prize at the end of the rope
All night long I dream of the day
When it comes around, when it's taken away
Leaves me with the feeling that I feel the most
Feel it come to life when I see your ghost
And I'm done, done and I'm on to the next one [8x]
[Yelling:]
Done, done, on to the next one
Done I'm done and I'm on to the next one [2x]
Hey don't let it go to waste
I love it but I hate the taste
Weight keeping me down [2x]
[Yelling]
Done, done and on to the next one
Done, I'm done, and I'm
On to the next.
All my life I've been searching for something
Something never comes never leads to nothing
Nothing satisfies but I'm getting close
Closer to the prize at the end of the rope
All night long I dream of the day
When it comes around, when it's taken away
Leaves me with the feeling that I feel the most
Feel it come to life when I see your ghost
And I'm done, done and I'm on to the next one [8x]
[Yelling:]
Done, done, on to the next one
Done I'm done and I'm on to the next one [2x]
Hey don't let it go to waste
I love it but I hate the taste
Weight keeping me down [2x]
[Yelling]
Done, done and on to the next one
Done, I'm done, and I'm
On to the next.
Mean Dtuk Mean Trei, Mean Loy Mean Srey
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