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MekongMouse wrote:
The Add Jay wrote:He broke the cops window and was beating him up.
According to the Darren Wilson, the guy who murdered him. Reliable source.
He taunted the police officer.
This sentence shows just how deeply rooted your devotion to authority is. Who gives a shit? People taunt people. Cops have the power to be vindictive so do.
He beat up a shop owner.
Wrong! He shoved a shop owner once. Nobody was beaten up.
He shot him once and told him to stop but he didnt.


Again, according to the man who shot him.
You wanna listen to th2 msm and its stirring the pot rhetoric be my guest. I'm more upset about the shooting of the homeless man living in the woods getting gun downed cause he didnt have a permit. Then some wanna be thug who beat up a shop keeper and robbed a store.
I didn't hear about that story, but it sounds like more police brutality. I don't listen exclusively to the mainstream media, but it is certainly more reliable than the far right media. And, also, Fox News has the biggest market share of any cable news network in the US, so let's not forget what mainstream encompasses.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Boyd_shooting

There was protesting but it didnt make any major headlines. Go view the video...fucking awful beyond words. As compared to the Thuqq stealing dutchmasters from a immigrant stationary store owner so he can save 2 bucks for a dime bag of weed.
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Satiated Parrot wrote:It seems many people here really want to believe that the cop was too heavy-handed. Remember, though, that a grand jury decided there wasn't enough evidence to even CHARGE the cop. And this decision was made after around 25 witnesses provided evidence. Don't you think that suggests a low likelihood that the cop acted outside his scope of authority?
Nope: http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/ferg ... en-wilson/
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The Add Jay wrote:
MekongMouse wrote:
The Add Jay wrote:He broke the cops window and was beating him up.
According to the Darren Wilson, the guy who murdered him. Reliable source.
He taunted the police officer.
This sentence shows just how deeply rooted your devotion to authority is. Who gives a shit? People taunt people. Cops have the power to be vindictive so do.
He beat up a shop owner.
Wrong! He shoved a shop owner once. Nobody was beaten up.
He shot him once and told him to stop but he didnt.


Again, according to the man who shot him.
You wanna listen to th2 msm and its stirring the pot rhetoric be my guest. I'm more upset about the shooting of the homeless man living in the woods getting gun downed cause he didnt have a permit. Then some wanna be thug who beat up a shop keeper and robbed a store.
I didn't hear about that story, but it sounds like more police brutality. I don't listen exclusively to the mainstream media, but it is certainly more reliable than the far right media. And, also, Fox News has the biggest market share of any cable news network in the US, so let's not forget what mainstream encompasses.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Boyd_shooting

There was protesting but it didnt make any major headlines. Go view the video...fucking awful beyond words. As compared to the Thuqq stealing dutchmasters from a immigrant stationary store owner so he can save 2 bucks for a dime bag of weed.
It is a shame. The media should be talking about this. Unfortunately, homeless people are valued even less than black people in our society.
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MekongMouse wrote:
Satiated Parrot wrote:It seems many people here really want to believe that the cop was too heavy-handed. Remember, though, that a grand jury decided there wasn't enough evidence to even CHARGE the cop. And this decision was made after around 25 witnesses provided evidence. Don't you think that suggests a low likelihood that the cop acted outside his scope of authority?
Nope: http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/ferg ... en-wilson/
"Nope" to what? My comments on the lack of indictment or the number of witnesses? What portion of this article are you referencing?
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It had nothing to do with the homeless part. Its over him having a PERMIT! a Regulation thanks to the environmental nazis that have taken over the government.

department of land management is now carrying M4's and M16's.

The media has blown this into the wind of race. If you cant see that you have the brain equal to that of a duck. The argument should be the arming of police and killing of people over stupid shit...point case like I should you and the other guy killed NY over TAXED cigarettes.

Not some Bojangling wanna be thuqq who thought he can try to take a cops gun.
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Satiated Parrot wrote:
MekongMouse wrote:
Satiated Parrot wrote:It seems many people here really want to believe that the cop was too heavy-handed. Remember, though, that a grand jury decided there wasn't enough evidence to even CHARGE the cop. And this decision was made after around 25 witnesses provided evidence. Don't you think that suggests a low likelihood that the cop acted outside his scope of authority?
Nope: http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/ferg ... en-wilson/
"Nope" to what? My comments on the lack of indictment or the number of witnesses? What portion of this article are you referencing?
Nope was directed towards your only question. I don't think a grand jury failing to indict a cop means anything because cops are never indicted. The article I linked had statistics on this.
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MekongMouse wrote:
Satiated Parrot wrote:
MekongMouse wrote:
Satiated Parrot wrote:It seems many people here really want to believe that the cop was too heavy-handed. Remember, though, that a grand jury decided there wasn't enough evidence to even CHARGE the cop. And this decision was made after around 25 witnesses provided evidence. Don't you think that suggests a low likelihood that the cop acted outside his scope of authority?
Nope: http://fivethirtyeight.com/datalab/ferg ... en-wilson/
"Nope" to what? My comments on the lack of indictment or the number of witnesses? What portion of this article are you referencing?
Nope was directed towards your only question. I don't think a grand jury failing to indict a cop means anything because cops are never indicted. The article I linked had statistics on this.
Yes, it says grand juries are less likely to do so, but it also states that one of the theories behind such is that indictment requests against police are submitted due to public pressure. Do we suspect that this theory may apply here?
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Oh, and the "statistics" your article referenced came from two jurisdictions in the entire US, one of which, I believe, was a county.
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Thx Jacket - good idea for a thread and well thought out introduction.
(Hint - there's already a thread on Michael Brown in the Rest of the World)
Jacket wrote:Disclaimer: The purpose of this thread is to ask a simple question. If you just want to read the question then skip to the last line of this post. If you feel uncomfortable answering the question in public, I'd just like you to contemplate it for yourself, since I think that it is something we all should give some thought to. I'd actually discourage anybody from answering untruthfully in such a case. It is a case in which it is better not to say anything than to delude oneself with one's own lies if the truth is too much to bare (or to discuss in public).

However, if you'd be so kind and indulge in the ramblings of a man who has been assured throughout most of his life that he's "lost it" then carry on reading. Thanks for your time.

This is going to sound strange to some, but one thing that I absolutely love about Cambodia is that it brings out the worst in people. Most of us have grown up in christian/humanist first world countries. We've enjoyed the benefits of living in a society that will protect us and in which we will succeed as long as we follow the rules and don't step out of line. If we get sick we will get treatment. If we can't find a job we get unemployment benefit. If somebody harms us we can call the cops. Over all, even if you take some risks, there's always a safety net. When you fall you might break your legs, but you're probably not gonna die from it. Cambodia takes all of that away. If you are self reliant in Cambodia (by that I mean that you don't get an allowance or a pension from back home) you really and truly are self reliant. Everybody's too caught up in their own struggle to give half a shit about your problems. It's the jungle and if you don't fend for yourself, nobody else will.
This changes things. In a caring society you have reasons to act responsibly and kindly toward everybody else. These reasons aren't even based in religion or philosophy. Instead they are based on pragmatism. If you don't act in an anti-social manner you will enjoy the benefits from living in a christian/humanist modern first world country. If you do choose to act anti-socially then society will stomp on you with a vengeance. It's a deal. Your part is to care about society whilst society is keeping an eye out for you, the "upstanding citizen".
So what happens if you have a society in which your well-being is of absolutely no concern to anybody except yourself? If the collective doesn't concern itself with the well-being of the individual, the individual doesn't have any pragmatic reason to care about the collective's well-being, rules or norms. As the individual loses a motivation to follow the collective's moral code it becomes it's own arbiter in deciding what is the right and what is the wrong thing to do. You want to go out and have unprotected sex with prostitutes? Go ahead! You'd like to sell drugs for a living? That's your choice! You want to ride your motorcycle whilst being drunk? What's keeping you? You want to buy a gun and become some sort of wannabe gangster? The only person that holds you back is yourself.
The freedom that is being granted to you by society by disenfranchising you, means that you can truly be yourself. Despicable people will act despicably whilst decent people will act decently. You can be the most vile son of a bitch anybody has ever had the misfortune of bumping into, or you can be an example of ethical behavior and empathy. The dude who's acting like an asshole here, but doesn't do so in his home-country has always been an asshole. The difference is that he is upfront about it now. So this leads me to the question(s).

Where do you draw your own line?/What is your moral code?
While I agree that Cambodia (and SEA countries) can bring out the worst in us - and this was true when I was younger and stupider - it can also have a positive influence where it opens your eyes to a different culture and mindset. You realise that while we are all part of the same humanity, other cultures have a different take on life and the role of the individual and their place in the community.

Not to get too abstract, personally I find that I have a more tolerant and relaxed personality here than when I am living in a developed country with a western culture.
So, yes, for me living in Cambodia encourages a certain moral laxism; but it also tempers my impatience and helps develop tolerance. I now find it more rewarding to try to work out why I am frustrated and to change my attitude if possible. Not always possible of course and there are arseholes everywhere - that's also human nature :)
Just don't let it get to you.
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Thanks for getting this thread back on track. It's posts like these that make me wish that there was a like button here.
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