Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by hunter8 » Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:35 pm

Mishmash wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:28 pm
hunter8 wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:07 pm
Having sex with a woman and not marrying her is evil.
Hell is where the best girls are.

Best Music too.

Mish was doomed long ago.
Hell is one thing, and it probably does not exist. Pangs of conscience is another and very real. Luckily there are pro girls that take cash compensation.
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Smoking Joe Conrad » Tue Nov 05, 2019 7:31 am

John Bingham wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 6:19 pm
Smoking Joe Conrad wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 4:19 pm
John Bingham wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 2:40 pm
I'm sure the feeling is mutual.
That’s irrelevant and as I have only seen one white woman in a relationship with a local in my entire time living in se Asia I also think you are wrong.
I meant that it's extremely unlikely that any white woman would have the slightest interest in you. Many of these posts about having "yellow fever" and "not being interested" in white women strike me as nothing more than sour grapes. 8)
Granted generalizing about anything is ultimately flawed and its a lazy way to judge people. But opinions come from experience. In my experience of 'white women' and 'yellow women' I prefer the yellow hue. Regarding whether they would be interested in me I was never short of a girlfriend in my 35 years of life in the west and I guess I could find another one if I was so inclined.

But, due to my experiences, I would pick an Asian over a white. This doesn't mean there aren't nightmare women who are Asian or indeed white and this doesn't mean if I wasn't married and met a white woman who I was attracted to I wouldn't have a relationship with her.

This also doesn't mean I hate 'white women' so don't twist my words to fit whatever is your weirdo agenda about the subject. Of course I respect white woman - my mother is a white woman, my aunts are white women, my sisters are white women, my nieces are white women and my grandmother was a white woman ffs.
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Spigzy » Wed Nov 06, 2019 9:37 am

hunter8 wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:07 pm
Having sex with a woman and not marrying her is evil.
Taking a car for a test drive from a Khmer car salesman and not buying it is also evil. :hattip:
Meum est propositum in taberna mori,
ut sint Guinness proxima morientis ori.
tunc cantabunt letius angelorum chori:
"Sit Deus propitius huic potatori."
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by hunter8 » Wed Nov 06, 2019 10:39 am

Spigzy wrote:
Wed Nov 06, 2019 9:37 am
hunter8 wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:07 pm
Having sex with a woman and not marrying her is evil.
Taking a car for a test drive from a Khmer car salesman and not buying it is also evil. :hattip:
Car does not have feelings. We should be gentle to girls, especially in a traditional society like Cambodia. Good for our own karma too.
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Spigzy » Wed Nov 06, 2019 11:46 am

hunter8 wrote:
Wed Nov 06, 2019 10:39 am
Spigzy wrote:
Wed Nov 06, 2019 9:37 am
hunter8 wrote:
Mon Nov 04, 2019 7:07 pm
Having sex with a woman and not marrying her is evil.
Taking a car for a test drive from a Khmer car salesman and not buying it is also evil. :hattip:
Car does not have feelings. We should be gentle to girls, especially in a traditional society like Cambodia. Good for our own karma too.
Absolutely disagree - every car or bike I ever owned had a name & feelings. If you didn't treat them well they'd react just the same as any woman and leave you stranded in the middle of nowhere. Be suspicious of any man whose vehicle doesn't have a name or he treats them badly without care & attention.

I also beg to differ on being gentle to girls, or that Cambodia, or its women are any more "traditional" than any other society. I'm sorry, but this type of thing belongs in fairy tales, including the Bible. A good dosage of respect, fair treatment and perhaps even some chivalry by all means I agree - these are just good traits of any human; but if the suggested route is one of downright deferment to women at all costs then I'd suggest this does a disservice not only to yourself as a man, but also ultimately to women who at heart do not want a pathetic "Yes ma'am" bloke as their knight in shining armour. It's perhaps attractive & novel for them for a time when they get all the attention like a princess, but it soon wears off and they're left with the husk of a pathetic man, and soon look towards some good old fashioned @Felgerkarb. Hurrumph.
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Smoking Joe Conrad » Wed Nov 06, 2019 12:04 pm

Treat em mean keep em keen
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Smoking Joe Conrad » Wed Nov 06, 2019 12:04 pm

In reason of course
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by hunter8 » Wed Nov 06, 2019 12:09 pm

Thank you for your perspective. By being gentle I did not mean obeying her (“Yes, ma’am”) and fulfilling her dreams. Politeness, respect for traditions, - this is being gentle and also rules out most but bar girls unless man is looking to marry here.
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by Felgerkarb » Wed Nov 06, 2019 4:56 pm

Spigzy wrote:
Wed Nov 06, 2019 11:46 am
...but also ultimately to women who at heart do not want a pathetic "Yes ma'am" bloke as their knight in shining armour. It's perhaps attractive & novel for them for a time when they get all the attention like a princess, but it soon wears off and they're left with the husk of a pathetic man, and soon look towards some good old fashioned @Felgerkarb. Hurrumph.
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HAHAHA! Not sure what you mean exactly, but thank you, sirrah!
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Re: Methods to find western girlfriend in Cambodia...

Post by willyhilly » Wed Nov 06, 2019 7:30 pm

Here there are very few attractive Asian women but huge numbers of gorgeous back packers and flash packers. Most bar attendants are very attractive ladies from all over the world. At the lagoon the huge swimming pool with a park there are more attractive women in bikinis than anywhere else that I have been.
This is a party town and these women all come to party. Cambodia seems to attract a different type. No soap dodgers here.
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