Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by UKJ » Tue Jul 22, 2014 11:39 am

Rain Dog wrote:I don't think any lack of emotional or intellectual maturity comes into it. It's a very basic need, that surely nature has programmed to surface when ready for it, and not before? Nature hasn't really made many "mistakes".
Can we not trust them to seek out the level of pornography they are comfortable with?
I disagree. No problem for porn with adults, although even there I question how harmful some of the more violent or dominant stuff is. There are lots of issues with younger people (even sophisticated young people as found in developed western countries). Many studies confirm this. A lot also depends on what type of porn. Softcore/romantic porn might be ok, but considering the number of sexual assaults into Cambodia, adding a strong dose of bondage or some of the nastier stuff out there into the readily available media mix could have catastrophic effects. There is a lot of nasty stuff out there --- I don't think you can count on people who have limited exposure in the first place to be able to "filter" what level is "best" for them. Even in the USA --- the envelope was pushed over a period of decades as social norms of acceptability changed.[/quote]
We weren't really talking about Khmer men.
What % of western men watch porn? 95% guesstimate? I prefer soft porn. Watching bondage or violent porn wouldn't make me sexually violent, any more than watching gay porn wouldn't make me gay. I have been using soft porn for approximately 4 decades. As have my friends.I don't think any of us have escalated to ever more hard porn, as some people suggest. Have you? Do you think watching a different type of porn would change your tastes and habits? If not. Why do you think it would change others?
Let's not make teenage boys think they are freaks because they like porn and masterbate 6 times a day.
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by Rain Dog » Tue Jul 22, 2014 11:52 am

You have your "quote" mixed up making your words seem as they are mine and mine as yours.
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by UKJ » Tue Jul 22, 2014 11:58 am

Sorry. It wouldn't work a second time. I had to miss out your first post.
Rain Dog wrote: I disagree. No problem for porn with adults, although even there I question how harmful some of the more violent or dominant stuff is. There are lots of issues with younger people (even sophisticated young people as found in developed western countries). Many studies confirm this. A lot also depends on what type of porn. Softcore/romantic porn might be ok, but considering the number of sexual assaults into Cambodia, adding a strong dose of bondage or some of the nastier stuff out there into the readily available media mix could have catastrophic effects. There is a lot of nasty stuff out there --- I don't think you can count on people who have limited exposure in the first place to be able to "filter" what level is "best" for them. Even in the USA --- the envelope was pushed over a period of decades as social norms of acceptability changed.
We weren't really talking about Khmer men.
What % of western men watch porn? 95% guesstimate? I prefer soft porn. Watching bondage or violent porn wouldn't make me sexually violent, any more than watching gay porn wouldn't make me gay. I have been using soft porn for approximately 4 decades. As have my friends.I don't think any of us have escalated to ever more hard porn, as some people suggest. Have you? Do you think watching a different type of porn would change your tastes and habits? If not. Why do you think it would change others?
Let's not make teenage boys think they are freaks because they like porn and masterbate 6 times a day.
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by HotRecruiter » Tue Jul 22, 2014 12:02 pm

Some women seem to like this site, it's growing:

http://www.beautifulagony.com/public/main.php" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;

Click on Preview on the left.

I would like FC and Gen Mack make a submission, haha. And some of the female posters, too! :)

Most of them are squirrelly alternative folks, but a few are interesting. I like it for its diversity, but I feel it's not a fair representation of most people. But it does raise a few eyebrows, and show some attractive vulnerable scenes that I wouldn't have imagined before ...

I must admit I have strayed a bit on the web, I usually don't visit these sites, but there's no nudity but definitely adult content ...

And in India and Dubai, the large Caucasian woman is the master, and has the job and experience to take on MUCH YOUNGER boyfriends ... esp. in India ... The Arabs seem to like heavy-set women, too ...
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by Rain Dog » Tue Jul 22, 2014 12:03 pm

UKJ wrote: What % of western men watch porn? 95% guesstimate? I prefer soft porn. Watching bondage or violent porn wouldn't make me sexually violent, any more than watching gay porn wouldn't make me gay. I have been using soft porn for approximately 4 decades. As have my friends.I don't think any of us have escalated to ever more hard porn, as some people suggest. Have you? Do you think watching a different type of porn would change your tastes and habits? If not. Why do you think it would change others?
Let's not make teenage boys think they are freaks because they like porn and masterbate 6 times a day.
As I stated previously. I do not have any issues with "soft porn" all. I would also agree that removing Guilt and paranoia about masturbation is beneficial.

However I strongly disagree with your statement that people can sort out for themselves what level of Porn is acceptable to them, particularly in conservative cultures where exposure to sexual information is very limited (e.g., Cambodia).

And since we are posting in the general chatter section of a Cambodia centered forum, I think it is perfectly logical to discuss the impact it could have here
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by Rain Dog » Tue Jul 22, 2014 12:22 pm

UKJ wrote:Sorry. It wouldn't work a second time. I had to miss out your first post.
ok

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RD
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by UKJ » Tue Jul 22, 2014 12:29 pm

Rain Dog wrote:
UKJ wrote: What % of western men watch porn? 95% guesstimate? I prefer soft porn. Watching bondage or violent porn wouldn't make me sexually violent, any more than watching gay porn wouldn't make me gay. I have been using soft porn for approximately 4 decades. As have my friends.I don't think any of us have escalated to ever more hard porn, as some people suggest. Have you? Do you think watching a different type of porn would change your tastes and habits? If not. Why do you think it would change others?
Let's not make teenage boys think they are freaks because they like porn and masterbate 6 times a day.
As I stated previously. I do not have any issues with "soft porn" all. I would also agree that removing Guilt and paranoia about masturbation is beneficial.

However I strongly disagree with your statement that people can sort out for themselves what level of Porn is acceptable to them, particularly in conservative cultures where exposure to sexual information is very limited (e.g., Cambodia).

And since we are posting in the general chatter section of a Cambodia centered forum, I think it is perfectly logical to discuss the impact it could have here
Porn in Cambodia is definitely a valid topic , but out of my experience. I have noticed in the UK that some immigrant groups have scary attitudes towards women. ( I'm not inferring Khmers do). Drunk women, lone women, smoking women, sexy dressed, seem to looked down on by some immigrant groups, if not abused. It's a bad time for young women in the UK.
I was just commenting previously on the " anti porn bandwagon" that I hear in the UK. It's usually from a middle aged woman, who clearly doesn't know men whatsoever.
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by UKJ » Tue Jul 22, 2014 12:35 pm

HotRecruiter wrote:
And in India and Dubai, the large Caucasian woman is the master, and has the job and experience to take on MUCH YOUNGER boyfriends ... esp. in India ... The Arabs seem to like heavy-set women, too ...
Scary stuff coming out of India. Gang raping women and hanging them from trees. Gang rapes on buses. Revenge rapes!!!! And this week, a six year old allegedly raped by two teachers at school. A very sick society.
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by Joker Poker » Tue Jul 22, 2014 1:12 pm

UKJ wrote:
HotRecruiter wrote:
And in India and Dubai, the large Caucasian woman is the master, and has the job and experience to take on MUCH YOUNGER boyfriends ... esp. in India ... The Arabs seem to like heavy-set women, too ...
Scary stuff coming out of India. Gang raping women and hanging them from trees. Gang rapes on buses. Revenge rapes!!!! And this week, a six year old allegedly raped by two teachers at school. A very sick society.
Maybe some of those stuck up bitches in the West will realise that some of the guys they thought were beneath them weren't so bad after all.

A friend of a friend had an interesting story of how he met a girl at a party that he knew when he was a young lad. She'd turned 40 and was trying to hit on him at the party. He responded with "I wasn't good enough for you when I was young, well now you're not good enough for me"!
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Re: Meet the middle-aged female sex tourists

Post by Mrs Stroppy » Tue Jul 22, 2014 4:20 pm

Wow! There's a whole lot of anger in that first sentence JK.
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