rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 11:10 am

CEOCambodiaNews wrote:Update details: Seems that the event took place at the Gold Line Dance Club which is a night club venue, not a KTV, and so the women involved were most likely customers who took offense at a guy who creeped them out by feeling them up on the dance floor .

Good for them! I almost punched a guy at Oscars the other week - my friend was standing in front of me, with her back to a guy, who was sitting on a stool behind her.

Next minute his foot is between her legs and he’s rubbing it up her leg. My friend (baring) just froze while I asked the guy what the fuck he thought he was doing? His friends made him leave soon after that.

In those situations when men can’t behave themselves and a woman has to step in to remind them of their manners - it’s the woman who gets labeled aggressive and feminazi.

If men could act like people and not animals, women could continue to be sweet and submissive.

I don't consider a woman that demands to be respected and not sexually assaulted either aggressive nor a feminazi. Most men, perhaps all men have mothers and wouldn't want the same thing done to their mother as was done to your friend.
Men, for the most part, act like people and not animals and if I wanted submissive for a partner ( well I suppose junior partner as partner implies equality), I would get a lap dog. Sexist generalizations obviously go both ways and yours are equal to the cop that claims women lie about domestic violence or the Kiwi that lives at his mother's because his Australian mate was cheated by an ex-wife. Domestic violence and sexual assault rates amongst same-sex couples are actually higher than couples of the opposite sex. I am sure you are just angry and rightly so but to slander men will not solve the issue. Perhaps the word some, douchebag or uncultured needs to be inserted in the last line of your rant and you would find that the vast majority of men on the forum will agree with you, the way it is written now does you no favours.
In my opinion, the man that rubbed his foot up your friend's leg is a piece of shit and is fortunate someone did not kick him in his more than likely tiny scrotum.

Anthony's Weiner wrote:

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 11:10 am

CEOCambodiaNews wrote:Update details: Seems that the event took place at the Gold Line Dance Club which is a night club venue, not a KTV, and so the women involved were most likely customers who took offense at a guy who creeped them out by feeling them up on the dance floor .

Good for them! I almost punched a guy at Oscars the other week - my friend was standing in front of me, with her back to a guy, who was sitting on a stool behind her.

Next minute his foot is between her legs and he’s rubbing it up her leg. My friend (baring) just froze while I asked the guy what the fuck he thought he was doing? His friends made him leave soon after that.

In those situations when men can’t behave themselves and a woman has to step in to remind them of their manners - it’s the woman who gets labeled aggressive and feminazi.

If men could act like people and not animals, women could continue to be sweet and submissive.

I don't consider a woman that demands to be respected and not sexually assaulted either aggressive nor a feminazi. Most men, perhaps all men have mothers and wouldn't want the same thing done to their mother as was done to your friend.
Men, for the most part, act like people and not animals and if I wanted submissive for a partner ( well I suppose junior partner as partner implies equality), I would get a lap dog. Sexist generalizations obviously go both ways and yours are equal to the cop that claims women lie about domestic violence or the Kiwi that lives at his mother's because his Australian mate was cheated by an ex-wife. Domestic violence and sexual assault rates amongst same-sex couples are actually higher than couples of the opposite sex. I am sure you are just angry and rightly so but to slander men will not solve the issue. Perhaps the word some, douchebag or uncultured needs to be inserted in the last line of your rant and you would find that the vast majority of men on the forum will agree with you, the way it is written now does you no favours.
In my opinion, the man that rubbed his foot up your friend's leg is a piece of shit and is fortunate someone did not kick him in his more than likely tiny scrotum.

I’ve never seen a woman acting this way. When I do, I will call her out on it too. Men are not the victims in this country so put the violin away.

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 12:55 pm

Anthony's Weiner wrote:

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 11:10 am

CEOCambodiaNews wrote:Update details: Seems that the event took place at the Gold Line Dance Club which is a night club venue, not a KTV, and so the women involved were most likely customers who took offense at a guy who creeped them out by feeling them up on the dance floor .

Good for them! I almost punched a guy at Oscars the other week - my friend was standing in front of me, with her back to a guy, who was sitting on a stool behind her.

Next minute his foot is between her legs and he’s rubbing it up her leg. My friend (baring) just froze while I asked the guy what the fuck he thought he was doing? His friends made him leave soon after that.

In those situations when men can’t behave themselves and a woman has to step in to remind them of their manners - it’s the woman who gets labeled aggressive and feminazi.

If men could act like people and not animals, women could continue to be sweet and submissive.

I don't consider a woman that demands to be respected and not sexually assaulted either aggressive nor a feminazi. Most men, perhaps all men have mothers and wouldn't want the same thing done to their mother as was done to your friend.
Men, for the most part, act like people and not animals and if I wanted submissive for a partner ( well I suppose junior partner as partner implies equality), I would get a lap dog. Sexist generalizations obviously go both ways and yours are equal to the cop that claims women lie about domestic violence or the Kiwi that lives at his mother's because his Australian mate was cheated by an ex-wife. Domestic violence and sexual assault rates amongst same-sex couples are actually higher than couples of the opposite sex. I am sure you are just angry and rightly so but to slander men will not solve the issue. Perhaps the word some, douchebag or uncultured needs to be inserted in the last line of your rant and you would find that the vast majority of men on the forum will agree with you, the way it is written now does you no favours.
In my opinion, the man that rubbed his foot up your friend's leg is a piece of shit and is fortunate someone did not kick him in his more than likely tiny scrotum.

posses.

I’ve never seen a woman acting this way. When I do, I will call her out on it too. Men are not the victims here so put the violin away.

Well, I take it back then. I have never seen a woman being beaten by her husband so it obviously doesn't t happen. Is violence more common in same-sex relationships? https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-29994648 Perhaps education would open your mind

I agree I am not a victim regardless of your slander. I gave you the opportunity to amend your statement and be realistic and respectful, you instead chose to double down. I do not consider women that fight off aggressive men to be feminazis however I do consider women ( or men) that make ridiculous sexist generalizations to be shallow and unattractive regardless of whatever god given attributes they may possess. Like the other two ( male) sexist posters I referenced I strongly suspect that you are bitter about the opposite sex because of your recent relationship's demise
Good luck to you, I am sure there is a man out there looking for bitter and snarly in a woman.

I ended my relationship, I have no need for bitterness.

I have only ever witnessed men being inappropriate like this with women - never women, it’s not something I’ve ever seen a woman do in this country and that’s what we are discussing. We aren’t talking about domestic violence elsewhere.

We are talking about the way men feel they can treat women in public in this country.

Every single woman I know in Phnom Penh has had to deal with this on more than one occasion.

And the term feminazi justs rolls off the tongue of Khmer men? Time to be honest, you may have no need for bitterness but it is pretty apparent what's driving your bus at the moment. I'll put my violin down now, I wouldn't want it to drown out the sound of your biological clock. Tick Tock


[Mod edit: Take a day off. Seems to me you're on a mission to flame another member and getting personal with accusations of unresolved anger issues from previous relationships. Your accusation of slander is also drawing a long bow...to quote Rozzieoz:

In those situations when men can’t behave themselves and a woman has to step in to remind them of their manners - it’s the woman who gets labeled aggressive and feminazi.

If men could act like people and not animals, women could continue to be sweet and submissive.

NB The context was "In those situations" so I don't see the generalisation and I think you chose to run with that for argument sake..]

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 11:10 am Good for them! I almost punched a guy at Oscars the other week - my friend was standing in front of me, with her back to a guy, who was sitting on a stool behind her.

Next minute his foot is between her legs and he’s rubbing it up her leg. My friend (baring) just froze while I asked the guy what the fuck he thought he was doing? His friends made him leave soon after that.

In those situations when men can’t behave themselves and a woman has to step in to remind them of their manners - it’s the woman who gets labeled aggressive and feminazi.

If men could act like people and not animals, women could continue to be sweet and submissive.

What nationality was the customer?

I think he was English.

rozzieoz wrote: ↑Sat Jul 13, 2019 5:23 pm I think he was English.

no excuse then, as even the shaved-head football hooligans know the rules
but alcohol, and girl bars, degrade manners, especially if your friend is hot?

My friend is also from the UK.

He tried to put his arm around her first and she shook him off and turned her back to him, making it clear she wasn’t interested.

Then the foot incident happened. It was inexcusable and my reaction was ALL about protecting my friend, it has nothing to do with my personal situation.