whiteribbon wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 8:38 pm

prahocalypse now wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:52 pm

jmagic wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:49 pm Its her business, she can refuse to serve whoever she wants to.

Is it the same as a baker refusing to sell a gay couple a wedding cake?

Don't be ignorant, being gay isn't a lifestyle choice.

But having a gay wedding is.

jmagic wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 8:49 pm

whiteribbon wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 8:38 pm

prahocalypse now wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:52 pm

jmagic wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:49 pm Its her business, she can refuse to serve whoever she wants to.

Is it the same as a baker refusing to sell a gay couple a wedding cake?

Don't be ignorant, being gay isn't a lifestyle choice.

But having a gay wedding is.

So a shop should be able to refuse business to 2 black or disabled people getting married? Cause being black or disabled isn't a choice but getting married is? There's no exploitation in any of these.

I am 61 , my wife is 28. She owns her own car, house and has a university degree. Ask her if she is exploited? I guess they can serve who they want, i could give a flying fook what some top knot weaing hairdresser thinks. Here in Isaan it is quite common for a man of means to have a "gik"or side piece, I do not. I have never had any negative feedback about our relationship from any of the people in our village and only once in our relationship has any one said even the slightest derogatory remark. We were in Vietnam on holiday and an american backpacker said perv to me as he walked by. I could of replied " take a shower" and have been more accurate in my put down but why? The day I care what a service provider thinks is long past.

Holy shit, she works with Pharrel Williams...that's cool!

whiteribbon wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 8:38 pm

prahocalypse now wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:52 pm

jmagic wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:49 pm Its her business, she can refuse to serve whoever she wants to.

Is it the same as a baker refusing to sell a gay couple a wedding cake?

Don't be ignorant, being gay isn't a lifestyle choice.

Is being a gerontophile a lifestyle choice?

Anthony's Weiner wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 9:16 pm I am 61 , my wife is 28. She owns her own car, house and has a university degree. Ask her if she is exploited? I guess they can serve who they want, i could give a flying fook what some top knot weaing hairdresser thinks. Here in Isaan it is quite common for a man of means to have a "gik"or side piece, I do not. I have never had any negative feedback about our relationship from any of the people in our village and only once in our relationship has any one said even the slightest derogatory remark. We were in Vietnam on holiday and an american backpacker said perv to me as he walked by. I could of replied " take a shower" and have been more accurate in my put down but why? The day I care what a service provider thinks is long past.

I could not said it better. From my experience, IF some white person has that kind of remarks mean he is Jealous. They will find all kind of remarks. She is to pretty for him. He is shorter. She dress up nicer I mean you name it. Then they will turn around and try to sleep with best-friend girlfriend, wife (and I have seen 100 time that one also). I can tell you 1 thousand examples but I will stick with only one. Once I had a partner with me. We were waiting in front of the embassy for a visa. It was long Que. One guy at the back of me was talking to his friend. And he said it so laud "She is with him because he trick her into the relationship" (I think the first guy said "why she is with him" but very low. The second guy was almost yelling). She was 6 year younger then me. I mean no respect at all from some people. All the people heard it. And what I suppose to do. Fight him in front of the embassy. There is two things is life I really really can not stand, Gossiping and Jealous person.

kiwiincambodia wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 1:39 pm Of course it’s the old mans fault. You can blame the pretty young khmer girl for actually agreeing to be in such a relationship.

Is there actually anything Khmers will blame themselves for it is it always someone else fault?

No there is literally nothing.

Anthony's Weiner wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 9:16 pm I am 61 , my wife is 28. She owns her own car, house and has a university degree. Ask her if she is exploited? I guess they can serve who they want, i could give a flying fook what some top knot weaing hairdresser thinks. Here in Isaan it is quite common for a man of means to have a "gik"or side piece, I do not. I have never had any negative feedback about our relationship from any of the people in our village and only once in our relationship has any one said even the slightest derogatory remark. We were in Vietnam on holiday and an american backpacker said perv to me as he walked by. I could of replied " take a shower" and have been more accurate in my put down but why? The day I care what a service provider thinks is long past.

My Dad was 51 and my mum was 25 when they got married both are Australian and were married for 28 years until my dad passed away.

Does the same rule apply to Khmers and younger brides? Many elder wealthy Khmers in their 50s+ have brides aged 25-30 years younger than them (not to mention all those with younger models on the side), and nobody seems to give them any grief.

xX.TROPA.Xx wrote: ↑Mon Jul 23, 2018 7:05 am

kiwiincambodia wrote: ↑Sun Jul 22, 2018 1:39 pm Of course it’s the old mans fault. You can blame the pretty young khmer girl for actually agreeing to be in such a relationship.

Is there actually anything Khmers will blame themselves for it is it always someone else fault?

No there is literally nothing.

Khmer are as likely to take the blame for something as a junkie is for his problems or a sex pest is for having his phomne stolen for the fifth time. At least Khmer have an excuse. They are Buddhist and they do not subscribve to a blame culture. Buddha decides what will happen to them. I asked a Thai once why he drove home drunk and he said " If Buddha wants me to have an accident I will, and it will hurt less if I am drunk"