Defining the sexpat.

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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by DaveG » Tue Jan 21, 2020 5:52 pm

Mishmash wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 5:49 pm
PIEMAN wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 2:20 pm
who gave you permission to use my photo?
Fake News - not a fucking pie in sight.. :beer3:
He's eaten them all by the looks of it......... :beer1:
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Mishmash » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:01 pm

hunter8 wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:36 pm
That picture in the article when author calls the man desperate and others like to use that adjective to describe western men in nightlife areas.
Men in western countries are desperate, overworked, overhassled by obese feminists. Men when they have come to Asia are anything but desperate. They now live in the paradise, provided they can afford to pay bills of course. They don’t look anything like desperate, they look content and satisfied.

Compared to desperate men who stay in the west with no hope.
Too right... Desperate is no money, not a sniff of lovely hot ladies, and the only choice available is a land-whale telling you you are a patriarchal misogynist and not to touch her or even look at her or you'll be on the #metoo and up for a lawsuit.
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by xandreu » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:07 pm

phuketrichard wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 5:46 pm
timmydownawell wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:43 pm
If you're a barang who lives in PP (or any city in Asia) who spends a lot of time at girly bars and taking women home from them, then, yes, you're a sexpat. The people who meet this criteria will probably get upset at me for saying it though.
I dont necessarily agree, Just cause you prefer to pay when you feel the need for sex vs marrying and paying all the time, does not make you a sex pat.
The main difference being that with marriage, you're making an ongoing payment to keep them but when it comes to hookers, you're making a one-off payment for them to go away.
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Mishmash » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:13 pm

clutchcargo wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:16 pm
Sexpat dating local women

Is that an oxymoron?
Yeah WTF Clutch.

It's @Kung-fu Hillbilly winding everyone up with another provocative post :beer3:

1000% he posts them because he knows we will rise to the bait (pun intended) and certain derision will be poured on the author.

The good thing is the author can fuck off as he can't get a bird and that's more ladies for the rest of the men to take care of!

Silver lining!
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Kung-fu Hillbilly » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:17 pm

Mishmash wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:13 pm
clutchcargo wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:16 pm
Sexpat dating local women

Is that an oxymoron?
Yeah WTF Clutch.

It's @Kung-fu Hillbilly winding everyone up with another provocative post :beer3:

1000% he posts them because he knows we will rise to the bait (pun intended) and certain derision will be poured on the author.
It was getting quiet around here.
The idea that seeing the world is going from place to place to look at obvious things is an illusion natural to dull minds.
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Mishmash » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:19 pm

xandreu wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:07 pm
phuketrichard wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 5:46 pm
timmydownawell wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:43 pm
If you're a barang who lives in PP (or any city in Asia) who spends a lot of time at girly bars and taking women home from them, then, yes, you're a sexpat. The people who meet this criteria will probably get upset at me for saying it though.
I dont necessarily agree, Just cause you prefer to pay when you feel the need for sex vs marrying and paying all the time, does not make you a sex pat.
The main difference being that with marriage, you're making an ongoing payment to keep them but when it comes to hookers, you're making a one-off payment for them to go away.
I think the payment part is incidental, though general.

Marriage is for raising a family and feeling like a King. Hookers are the age-old mistresses who make you feel like a God.
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Mishmash » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:21 pm

Kung-fu Hillbilly wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:17 pm
Mishmash wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:13 pm
clutchcargo wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:16 pm
Sexpat dating local women

Is that an oxymoron?
Yeah WTF Clutch.

It's @Kung-fu Hillbilly winding everyone up with another provocative post :beer3:

1000% he posts them because he knows we will rise to the bait (pun intended) and certain derision will be poured on the author.
It was getting quiet around here.
Well you do have a way of making posters feel good about their own situations, when compared to the hit piece authors you dig up out of the bowels of somewhere. :beer3:
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Mishmash » Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:24 pm

Khmu Nation wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 3:20 pm
Dude's rocking a spectacular comb over.
Yeah, but it's not a belly under his t-shirt - that's his money belt stacked full of crispy Benjamins.
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by Anthony's Weiner » Tue Jan 21, 2020 8:40 pm

hunter8 wrote:
Tue Jan 21, 2020 4:13 pm
Other men are simply envious because their libido is low, because they can’t afford a lot of sex, because they don’t have guts to break from the society pressure to do what they really want and must conform to expectations of others or combination of all the above.
Definitely the only reasons I can think of why a real man would not want to be the 65th guy so far this month to toss his johnson into little Sally Starfish, thank God there are still places where the continually erect, wealthy nonconformists are respected and admired. :bow: :bow: :bow:
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Re: Defining the sexpat.

Post by SternAAlbifrons » Tue Jan 21, 2020 9:04 pm

No offence or self-righteousness intended

but i can't help thinking the reason some of the guys that have such a low opinion of western women, and their chances of hooking up with a good one, might be because they just ain't going to the right places.
And then some make that same mistake again here - if they really are looking for something other than a reverse ATM with a vagina attachment.

Unless you are hooked on the 20's yr/old bracket, and value fresh velvet satin above all else - there are heaps of attractive (across the board attractive) women in the west.
IMO. and observation, and experience, only.
And i sure ain't no big catch, at all.
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