explorer wrote: ↑Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:44 am I know a westerner who had an Indonesian girlfriend whose husband had died. When they broke up, her husband came back.

I know an westerner who married a Phippina whose husband had died. When they got divorced her husband came back.

I met a Cambodian lady whose husband had died. She told this story repeatedly in front of her children. When I came back a few years later, the husband was back and the story was forgotten.

I know of a Cambodian lady who left her Cambodian husband for a Western husband. I an sure she told him that her husband was dead, or they were separated. When he believed her she actually left her husband.

What I am suggesting is, when many asian women meet western men, if they think there is any chance the man may like them, they say the husband is dead, or they are separated. If the man actually likes them, they then leave their husband.

Many times Cambodian women have told me the husband is dead, or they are separated. When I say I am not interested, they say they were joking.

The thing that makes scams so effective, is that relatives, friends and neighbors all go along with it, and confirm the story. The entire community works together to scam you.

Some of you with asian girlfriends or wives. If you knew the truth, she may have left her husband after she met you. If you break up, he may be back.

kocdim wrote: ↑Tue Jul 31, 2018 8:45 am
How can somebody check the facts before jumping into the ship?? Any ideas?

kocdim wrote: ↑Tue Jul 31, 2018 8:45 am How can somebody check the facts before jumping into the ship?? Any ideas?

explorer wrote: ↑Tue Jul 31, 2018 9:14 am

kocdim wrote: ↑Tue Jul 31, 2018 8:45 am How can somebody check the facts before jumping into the ship?? Any ideas?

My thoughts are stick with single girls, not married ones.